What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? ENGLAND
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Waitress
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: No religion
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A bit bi
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Someone from my past became a fuckboy buddy
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was seeing him for a bit around-the-clock 2 years ago and I broke it off as I wasn’t feeling it. But we have been talking and sexting since. For the hook up I drove to his house. I felt no emotion towards him
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Pretty much straight away when I got to his house. He asked me the night before to come round. He instigated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Hand job, oral and vaginal. Quite a bit of spanking (as if he knew I like it). It wasn’t the biggest dick I’d been with and I had higher hopes. He was quite rough I’m used to more gentle. We had barely any conversation. I left shortly after.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had to get the morning after pill. I felt sexual lly liberated. I’ve met up with them since and we’ve had sex. I want them to be my fuck buddy.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends, they were happy that my dry spell has ended
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was no longer very sexually frustrated
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It felt rushed
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I view sex as an act with no emotion and an act of lust not love.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’ve discovered girth is very important to me
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would not judge my friends for taking part in it and I think more people undergo it than we realise.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic
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