What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Financial Advisor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40-50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Sunday Funday Acquaintance
How long ago did this hookup happen? Summer 2013
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a cute girl with ginger hair, 5’9″ and slender with great hips. We met when a mutual friend texted myself and a buddy to meet them at a cafe in town. She was in sweat pants but sometimes a girl can dress down and still drive me wild.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I walked in a instantly gravitated to her, redheads are a weakness of mine. When she went to the patio to smoke we both went out to continue a conversation we were having. We both asked each other if the other was single, the answer was yes. When I asked her what her ideal guy is she described me perfectly…Tall guys, brown hair.
When we were all leaving to go to another bar she hoped in my car. We both said she just needed to go back to my place for a minute to “charge her phone”. Clearly a lie. When we walked into my place I gave her a brief tour of my place, then walked up to my room where my phone charger was. She was biting her lip as we walked into my room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I handed her my charger on the night stand she plugged her phone in then we immediately started kissing and shedding clothes. Once in bed I realized I didn’t have a condom on. I was reaching for one but she told me she was on the pill and that condoms felt awful.
I flipped her on her back and began in the missionary position. I started off slow then after a few minutes was able to go deeper. The look on her face was very wide eyed but her mouth opened breathing heavily. As I sped up my rhythm I felt her getting wetter, she closed her eyes and began to moan more and more. I don’t know how but I can tell she was getting close, I was about to cum as well but wanted her finish. Preferably at the same time.
Her breathing was heavy, body was clenching; I knew she was just about ready to hit orgasm. In the same moment she arched her back, dug her nails into my back, then let out a very loud moan as her eyes got as big as dinner plates. My dick began to pulse and throb, and with one grunt I shot my load inside of her. As she felt my load inside her vagina she gasped as it was a rather large amount.
We both laid there in the afterglow for a minute before she climbed back on top of me and we started making out again. Her naked body pressing against mine, my hands sliding up her back and down to her firm and perky butt. It was amazing
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She did not spend the night with me, I actually had to bring her back to our mutual friends apartment. We both went there that night to meet back up with our group. HOWEVER, the next morning I did bring back a piece of clothing she left at my place and long story short, we banged on our friends couch.
This wasn’t the last time we hooked up by any means.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My buddy in the group
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was attractive, being a redhead was a big turn on as well. And it was so random and spontaneous.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was a smoker but it wasn’t that big of a deal.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, my opinion of hookups have been the same since.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Very important
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.
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