What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Too many to count
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Jimmy on Tinder. His profile stated he was married and looking for something on the side. We started messaging and the conversation quickly went towards what we wanted sexually. It was very liberating to be so open about what we wanted to happen and what our fantasies were. Our text conversations were very explicit and a complete turn on. I am a bit kinky so it was fun to talk to someone that really wanted to explore this.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started out the morning as usual texting. I told him that I was crazy horny and wished for him to help me (he lives in another city 300 km away) to my surprise he said he could be at my place later that afternoon as he was only 180km away. After a bit of thought and a few more dirty texts, I agreed that we needed to meet. I snuck out of work a bit early to go home and get ready. I was totally turned on by the thought of fucking a complete stranger. We have only texted up until this point and exchanged a few photos…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When he arrived at my condo door I greet him only wearing lingerie. He is not quite what I expected but I am so into the moment it didn’t matter. We exchanged very few words before we were all over each other. Thankfully he is a very good kisser. As we are kissing he pulls me closer to him is a slightly aggressive fashion that really turns me on.
I slowly lead him to my bedroom where we begin to undress each other. He reached into my panties and was very happy to find my wetness …in turn, I reach for his hardening cock that is leaking pre-cum.
We move to my bed, he lies down and I am happy to see that his cock is a very decent size. I climb on the bed next to him and he slides his fingers over my slippery clit while I explore his now hard dick.
We have still not said much of anything to eachother.
I want to taste him so I lower my mouth down to the tip of his cock and swirl my tounge then slowly take more of his shaft into my mouth until the tip hits the back of my throat. He moans… he likes this. He is reaching behind me playing with my pussy and asshole. I continue playing with his cock to get him warmed up … I know he wants me to play with his ass too but I want him to wait. He has always wanted to do ass play but has never told his wife.
I stop before he can come and I ask him to go down on me. He happily abliges. He gets between my legs and swirls his tounge over my clit … he is very good. As he teases my clit with his tounge he inserts two fingers inside to massage my g-spot. I think he made me cum 3 times .. this guy is now a keeper in my books 😉
As I am recovering from my orgasms he is kneeling between my legs and I take the opportunity to stroke his cock. I add some lube to make it extra slippery. As I am stroking him I slowly start to massage his asshole. This is his first time having a woman do this … he tells me how good this feels. This continues for a bit until he declared, it’s time to fuck.
He puts on the condom and slides into me. His size feels good.. he is a bit larger than the last few men that I have been with. I grind on his cock as he is kneeling between my legs .. I am trying to find the best position for max pleasure. We switch to me on top ( always a winner for me) and on proceed to have at least 3 more orgasams.
We switch to me bent over the bed and him entering from behind. I as him to put a finger in my ass while he fucks me… he happily obliges. While he his doing this I am using my favorite vibrator on my clit. I cum several more times and finally need to stop an catch my breath.
I as him to lay down so I can take care of him… he removes the condom lays down and is looking at me with a great deal of anticipation. I take his cock in my mouth and start slow circles around his asshole with my lubed finger. He really likes this… I do make him explode after about 10 min.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After cleaning ourselves up I asked him if his real name was Jimmy..he said no and told me his real name. We were both shaking still from the orgasams.
He had to get going as he had a 3hr drive home and I had to go out for dinner.
One of the hottest sexual encounters I have had.
We have been texting and we hope to get together when he is in town on business (2-3) times a month
We have many more things to try … he has a fantasy of being pegged ..this could be a fun kinky relationship
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I tell you … you tell me 😉
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneous nature
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He lives 300km away
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think it has made me more open to what I want. Just don’t care what other people think … we had fun
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People, in general, are too uptight about sex. Pleasure makes people into a better version of themselves if done ethically and with respect
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