Trouble Waiting to Happen



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Banking
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Trouble Waiting to Happen

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months to 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M is a beautiful 38 year old black women perfect 10 fake d cups nice booty good sexy body. P is her daughter 20 years old skinny b cups sexy body and beautiful. I met M two yrs ago at club we danced had some drinks and I got her number. Went out on some dates and we are friends with benefits. We hook up at least three times a week in my place. It’s perfect we like each other and we are good fuck buddies never have gotten into a fight or argument. Do we have a future no her idea of a bf is a tall black man but she always picks guy that can’t handle her she is to independent of a women.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Now I New M had a daughter in college in Houston but I have never met her. So I was at a bar downtown and my friend me tell to look at those girls over their they are hot. So he started talking to P friend and I made talk with P. She told me she was going to school in Houston and she was out for the summer so I got her number and we decided to go out on a date. We went a couple of times and had a good time nothing much.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So M and I hooked up like always one night she came over and we had dinner in my place then we fucked. M was wearing some tight jeans and a tank top. I start kissing M and she starts stroking my cock she undoes my pants give a good bj with lots of tongue and I cum in her mouth and she swallows my cum. I take her clothes off and her bra and I suck on her D cups until she cums. I move to kissing her perfect toned body and start eating her out then she tells me fuck me baby so I put my cock inside of her and fuck her hard until she cums again. I always have bare sex with M she is fixed and we been fucking bare for more than a year. I am the only person she fucks bare and I use a condom with the two girls I date and she knows about them and if she gets another hook up she uses protection with them we have this agreement. She doesn’t trust Black men she been hurt a lot. But that is another story. At this point, I didn’t know P is her daughter but right before P went back to school she tells me I want u to meet my mom and said sure now P is a virgin and I have not had sex with her. So I meet M at the restaurant as I wait for P to get there and we start talking as P walks in she see Me talking to P and tell me so you met my mom already M looks at me say yes. So we sit down and have dinner like nothing I felt like dying. We came in our own cars so I drove home and M and P went home two hours later M show up to my house in a robe and tell me so is my daughter still a virgin and I say yes she takes off the robe wearing nothing but a thong and we have the best sex to date. Later that night we talked and she tells me you can’t date P and have me too so pick. I picked M of course.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Me and M are still fuck buddies and I don’t think that will ever change. I stopped talking to P and M tell me she has a Bf now and me and P didn’t do anything but kiss and hold hands but me and M is something special we have great nights together we went to a couple of UT football games together and we still have great sex. I think we will be together until I get married or we end up getting married but who knows. I do like this one girl I am dating and are getting kind of serious but let’s see what happen. Trouble waiting to happen is what I am living but having fun

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just to M.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? M. Not freaking out and P going back to school.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Almost losing M. Glad I didn’t fuck P.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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