by Rob
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8
Birthday Orgy
How long ago did this hookup happen? November 2017
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A gorgeous, sexy, zen female who is married to a medical doctor. She is very close in size and appearance to my girlfriend, they actually look similar. We met this couple on Fetlife and have socialized with them three times before finally hooking up. I like this couple a lot and really wanted to hook up with the wife, but my girlfriend was on the fence about the husband.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My girlfriend and the wife talked on the phone for a long time about giving me a number of sexual favors for my birthday. I had some idea of what they planned to do with me and was incredibly aroused. We went out to dinner before, had a great time, then drove back to their home. I had taken a Viagra for the first time ever earlier that evening and by the time we arrived in their driveway, I was getting hard.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drank wine and smoked a joint. Everyone got high and my cock was so hard that the two girls noticed it bulging through my jeans. They both played with it through the denim, then the wife opened my jeans and started playing with my cock. She and I kissed passionately (she is an amazing kisser), then I got naked, she was down to bra and panties, and we made out for a long time. I assume my girlfriend was making out with the husband, the room was dark. Then the wife suggested we go to the bedroom. By this time I was naked. The four of us got in bed and the two girls took turns playing with my cock and balls. One of them would suck my cock while the other licked my balls. I fingered the wife, sucked her tits, put on a condom, and fucked her for a very long time in multiple positions. She came multiple times. My girlfriend gave her husband a blow job while I was fucking his wife. Then the girls both got on top of me – my girlfriend sat on my face while the wife sucked my cock. Then the wife rode my cock while the two girls kissed passionately and played with each other’s tits and asses. Finally, I came while my girlfriend sucked my cock and the wife ate my ass.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had the time of my life, but the next morning, my girlfriend left my home very mad. She apparently became very jealous of the doctor’s wife. We are working on patching this up as I intend to remain friends with this couple and I definitely want to have sex with the wife again. I do not think my girlfriend will have sex with her husband again so this is a work in progress.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few close friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Two hot, sexually charged girls as my birthday present.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My girlfriend became very jealous the next day.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Makes me want more casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I had the time of my life. I must have been very, very good in a past life to deserve having experiences like this one!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Society would be a far better place if people would just chill the fuck out. Casual sex and marijuana are needed in far greater quantities.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!
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