First MFM

by One Lucky Dude

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First MFM

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My Wife and I were keen to try and see what it would be like to have another guy fuck her. We met his guy online who was of similar age and view on life and seemed a good fit. We ended up meeting him in another country.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was fairly well planned to meet this guy at a hotel bar and have a drink and agree to go from there. The intention was for us all to play together. We met and we all agreed to go up to our room to progress things.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the room, it was a little awkward at first, but luckily the other guy had more experience and got thing going. I remember my wife in the middle of us two with a cock in each hand looking very pleased with herself. She then started to suck him off and I joined in and sucked his cock too, which was an amazing thing to share. We then tried various positions until we both came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we cleaned up and he went home

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, just my wife and I

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? sharing this with my wife. It brought us closer and we have had another MFM since which she was much more enthusiastic about

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The other guy was not as hard as either of us would have liked

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Some things are still Taboo…we could not talk about this with anybody else as wife sharing and bi sex is too much for most people

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it

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