First Swing

by sparky

Gender: male
Age: 55
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Minnesota
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Company director
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Swing

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

How would you best classify this hookup? fwb

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Couple similar to us, 50s, met online via friends, many emails.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? SO [Significant Other] and I jointly decided to try full swap swinging. She took the lead in getting us on a web site and finding interesting couples. I would make the contact and set up our dates. My SO lived as a lesbian for 10 years after college, so she wanted to add lady time back into her bed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Couples swapped partners, which began with both ladies enjoying each other for quite a while. My SO called me over and guided my cock into the other ladies mouth, then went down on the other guy. At some point everyone was coupled up doggie style. My SO and I caught each others eye and we were both grinning like the Cheshire Cat. Ended up with three rounds in multiple positions. I’m sure that the ladies were game for more but the guys were shagged out.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Bareback, everyone had recent std tests, etc. Both guys are snipped, both ladies post menopause. Not perfect but of all things, the ladies themselves insisted on feeling skin on skin.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity, we both had interesting sex lives before we coupled, and wanted to add to it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None, we prefer our sex sober.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Everyone said good nights, and there was quite a lot of making out at the door. We went to sleep for about two hours, woke up, and had another hour of some of the best sex we’ve ever had, because the experience turned us on that much.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, absolutely!

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, our first swing swap was so much fun we’ve become dedicated swingers.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Reminding ourselves that sex is fun, joyful, and essential to our lives and relationship.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It’s not for everyone. Many people aren’t wired for full swap swinging. Turns out that we are.

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