Me, My Wife, the Fog, and a Friend

by James

Gender: Male
Age: 50
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: West Coast
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Artist
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Me, my wife, the fog, and a friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last summer

How would you best classify this hookup: hookup

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is a beautiful woman, wonderful curves, fantastic laugh, and adventurous spirit. We are both middle-aged but still have what friends say is a great sexy vibe that surrounds us. She also enjoys and expects me to surprise her once in a while, and this meet-up was just that, and it turned in to a bit more than a meet and greet.

Our ‘friend’ is in his late 20s, slender, long hair, cute and as adventurous as we are. Because my wife and I enjoy adding another man or two, or a couple, to the mix once in a while, I posted an ad online to which he responded, and we chatted a bit, got a feel for one another, and made some loose plans.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were traveling to spend time with family, and on long trips we have places we like to stay to break the journey up. Our schedules were a bit out of sync, but we arrived in the town we stay in on an incredibly foggy night, foggiest I can remember in a while. Since neither of us had the ability to host that night, I suggested we meet at a overlook we both know to see if there was any chemistry between the two of them, and maybe make plans for a future trip. We were running a bit behind schedule so as we drove to the parking area he actually drove past us, having been there for a little while…we knew what cars to look for so I pulled in and got out, telling my wife I wanted to go see if I could see the, well, sea. A few moments later he pulled up, and I casually walked over and said hi, trying to keep my wife in the dark a bit.
I looked at him in person by the dashboard light and knew she’d approve so I told him I was going to coax her out to see something.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I opened my wife’s door and said I wanted her to see something neat. It was already 11pm and we had a fairly early start planned in the morning, so she was a bit grumpy, but got out anyway, and so I motioned her over to our friend’s open window. She looked in, and saw he had his pants down and was stroking his cock, and she looked back at me, smiled, and looked at him, saying “well, hellooo, there”.  She reached in and started to play with his cock; after a minute or two she opened the door and leaned in and took it in her mouth.  My wife always wears dress and never wears panties, so I walked up behind her and began gently playing with her, while watching her mouth move up and down on him.

We didn’t have much time and were aware that we were in the open, fog or no, so I knelt down and began to lick her while I listened to the sounds of her on him and watched his hands roaming her body. I don’t know how long it took, but I could hear the sounds of an impending orgasm, and then I heard my wife moan and make little mmm mmm mmm sounds  as she came.  And then I heard her swallow, and knew I had to get her home asap. They chatted for a minute, he thanked her profusely and we made some tentative plans to take things much, much further next time. We got back the the place we where staying and had simply incredible sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Lots of talk before hand and for us condoms for penetration are a non-negotiable mandatory item.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We have these sorts of hookups when we can. It puts some more spice in to our relationship. We are not a cuckold couple in any way, and I normally participate if the other guy or couple is good with that. We are just one of those couples who like to skew the average.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None, ever.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? What usually happens, incredible sex, wonderful memories, and fantastic fantasy material later on. We have tried to reconnect with him, but schedules have hampered meeting up. Fingers crossed, however.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one outside us. We do hint at our activities to friends who have the maturity and sense of adventure to be OK with it, but it’s mostly innuendo and they think they know what’s up but don’t really know what to think.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Always.  That is also a must. Neither of us force the others’ hand…we are not a ‘take one for the team’ couple. Nor do we let other couples behave like that around us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope, nor any of the others. In fact, we are looking to recreate it soon with a different guy.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? There are lots of best things in the sense that nothing stands out as THE best…we have amazing sex after, but we have a pretty great sex life in general. It’s just more intense because we are both so turned on. And maybe that is the best part, the level of arousal and passion for each other than this kind of activity generates.
No downsides, not for us.  We’ve both been in ‘take one for the team’ situations, so we don’t play if it won’t be a good experience.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It’s not for everyone. We are all wired differently, and that wiring is affected by our social structure and/or culture in different ways. I think that’s why communities look the way they do.
But we break boundaries in lots of ways and as quietly as we can.  We have many friends who consider themselves very liberal and open-minded who would be aghast at what we do. I would caution those who want to try this…do NOT play in your own back yard. Sad, but best practice.

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