by Mandy
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Oregon
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student and barista
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
My First (and only) Double Penetration
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 2 guys I kinda knew and a girl I knew pretty well
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Went clubbing with a group of friends. Ended up back at an apartment and most of the people left. There was no planning. Super wasted me started it
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Everything… lol. We had sex, stoped and had sex again. My friend didn’t have sex but we made out. She pushed me to go crazy with the guys while she took pictures. We did oral, vaginal, anal and double penetration. I can’t remember a lot of what happened but saw the pics and heard her stories.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I woke up back home. I was hung over and didn’t remember a lot of it. It was fun to hear about tho. I was a little embarrassed but not upset it happened.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Peer pressure, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my friend who was there. She thought it was funny.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The craziness of it and hearing about it…
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being sore and hungover bad then next day. And I couldn’t find my panties… lol
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I usually don’t hook up. But it happened. Yolo
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool
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