My First Gangbang

by Jay

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Assistant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Gangbang

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The first partner was a tall white guy who was in decent shape. I had hooked up a couple times before. We met on Craigslist when I responded to his post.

The second was a smaller white who I never met before. I met him through my first partner.

The third was a shorter Latino who I hooked up once before on grindr.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was talking with my first partner and told him I always wanted to be fucked by multiple guys at the same time and wanted to set up a gangbang. He agreed to it and we started planning and picking what guys to do it with. We then decided to do it at his house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  We all met up at my first partner’s house. There we talked and made sure everyone was fine with what we wanted to do. I then lay on the bed and started sucking two of their dicks while the third guy started sucking my dick and fucking me with a dildo. They then started taking turns fucking me doggy style while I sucked one of their cocks. Later one of the guys sucked my dick until I came in his mouth. After they stood above me and started cumming on my face.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The day after i was really sore but satisfied. I was happy with all the guys and told them I’m down to do it again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?  I talked with one of my best friends. She was really happy for me and told me she wants to try getting gang banged one day.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being the center of attention and satisfied

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The soreness the day after

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like casual sex to be seen as a normal behavior and not of someone who is really slutty

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great chance for people to talk in a friendly environment

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