by Lady Greer
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States, Las Vegas
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Hospitality
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? HoneyGoddess
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Three Is A Crowd
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The main partner was a man I had met on Tinder and proceeded to go to sex clubs with. We had sex more times than I remember on hand. He’s tall, muscular, tatted, and bald. The second partner was much shorter, had low cut hair, was moderately toned, and had warm eyes and a permanent smile. I first set eyes on the second male in question at a sex club, and I was absolutely taken with his demeanor. The first lover was sweet, and I liked him as a friend; I liked his cock a little more I suppose.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was my idea, as I’m young and want to explore my sexuality to the fullest extent. Once I saw lover no. 2, I knew that I wanted him inside of me. Given that he and lover no.1 were good friends, getting what I wanted was easy. I took both of them back to my house, relaxed, and let the evening play out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It began with us all talking at my dining room table; admittedly, I was so nervous. I’m always so committed to pleasing my partner, except now I had two. For this portion of the story, I’ll give them names. Lover no.1 is Tate, and lover no.2 is Will. I made sure to wear the most sheer dress that I had in my closet so that they could see my body, how my nipples reacted to their presence. Tate started by sensually kissing me and woking his hand down to my bare pussy, while Will slowly undressed, watching. They carried me to the bed and each took turns eating my pussy. I was in so much pleasure that I couldn’t speak, and when Tate flipped me around to start fucking me, I couldn’t hold back my moans, even with Will’s cock in my mouth. They worked together to give me orgasm after orgasm and whorsipped me from my toes to my ears, only ending after they had cum on my ass and titts.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I allowed them to stay the night, as it was quite late. Waking up the next day, I felt empowered and sexy. I had conquered something that I was always too afraid to do. We are all good friends now, obviously much closer than before. It’s because of this and my comfort level with them both that it was even possible.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Tate, Will, and I all talked about it at the club.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing about it was that there was a lot of respect and appreciation towards me and themselves. It was a safe space for sexual experimentation.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? NOTHING!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Slightly. I’m more confident in what I can handle sexually. It’s been important in setting my boundaries.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has always had a stigma behind it, especially within my life as I am religious. In society, sex appeal is advertised, but casual sex is somehow a no-no. This is unnecessary and needs to change. We are all sexual beings, so let us fuck when we need to and love when it’s true.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome-sauce!
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