With BF’s Roommate

 

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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami, FL
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? >5

With BF’s Roommate

How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple of weeks ago. Mid January.

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My BF’s roommate Joe is a player. He’s 28, nice body, cocky attitude & can be annoying most of the time. We’ve hooked up numerous times before but never when my BF’s around although he does know about it and is ok with the situation.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The holiday rush was over and my BF had a couple of days in a row off. I went to his place to cook dinner and relax with him. Joe’s “date” canceled so he joined us. I was doing dishes & my BF started doing shots of whiskey while Joe lit a joint. Joe knows I love pot so he shared while I finished things in the kitchen. I sat next to my BF on the couch and we binged on Netflix. I was feeling relaxed and very horny. I’d been weeks since I’d had sex and I wanted it so bad. Joe and I finished the joint when he said that he was calling it a night and left to go to sleep. I heard his bedroom door shut and I waited around 10 minutes then I took off my shorts & pulled my BF’s cock out. I was on the couch with my ass in the air sucking him. He was soft & I was doing everything I could to get movement. I also noticed he was fading out. As fast as he was doing shots, I was afraid this would happen.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I felt warm hands rub my ass, grab my hips, and a raw cock ram inside me. I turned around & Joe was smiling as he was fucking me. I gave him a wink and kept sucking my BF a little more but it was no use. I thought he was asleep but he leaned over, gave Joe a fist pump, and said, “I’m going to sleep. Why don’t you two go to his room and finish.” Joe fucked me a few more seconds, smacked my ass & said, “You heard him, let’s go.” I was horny and wanted to get on top but he wanted to continue doggy. He didn’t last long and came inside me. My boyfriend was asleep on the couch. I kissed forehead and went to sleep in his bed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning, I cooked breakfast for everyone then Joe went to work. My BF & I spent most of the morning having amazing sex and he gave me multiple orgasms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one because Joe & I hook-up often.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was horny and Joe was able to satisfy me.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wanted to have an orgasm so bad but didn’t. I was so close! I’ve had sex with Joe many times and he’s never given me an orgasm. The sex is good but he’s only out to satisfy himself. My boyfriend had me super horny and I know I could’ve gotten off if Joe had let me ride him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think having casual sex is fun with friends to have a different experience.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Joe’s a nice guy and I’m sure we’ll have sex again.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish more people would be open to casual sex. It’s not a bad thing. People can have sex and remain friends.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good place to share all experiences.

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