With My BF & His Ex GF

by Katie

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit

With My BF & His Ex GF

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Claire (not her real name) is bi-sexual. She’s 5ft tall, has blue eyes, shoulder length strawberry blonde hair, a fit body, a rock hard ass and 32C fake tits. I think she’s very attractive but with no cloths on she’s super HOT and makes me wet. She used to be in a long term relationship with my boyfriend and that’s how we met.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Claire and my boyfriend are the same age. They’ve known each other for a long time and remained friends after they split up. When things started getting serious between me and my boyfriend, he asked if he could continue hooking-up with Claire on occasion. I love Claire, she’s fun to hang-out with AND a good source for pot. My boyfriend is an amazing person. We get along well and I couldn’t deny him the pleasures of a past girlfriend. We’ve always been open with things. I think it’s cool when people can have sex and remain friends. He’s known Claire much longer than me so, of course I had no issue with him continuing to hook-up with her. I don’t want to be known as a ‘prude’ girlfriend.

It wasn’t long after that, the two of them talked me into my first three-way and we’ve done plenty since. I’ve played with a few girls before but Claire’s the first girl I went all the way with. All I can say is….OMG! SHE’S AMAZING! Her tongue is pierced and knows how to please! After our first threesome, I understood why my boyfriend wanted to continue hooking-up with her. She’s CRAZY, FREAKY AND FUN!

Claire was in town for the weekend and made plans to stay at my boyfriend’s apartment. Thankfully,  his annoying roommate Joe was out of town for a couple of months working with a contractor installing roofs on homes in South GA. My boyfriend did a lot of trading work shifts so he could have the entire weekend off. LOL

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was Friday night, we got back from dinner and we were all out back when Claire brought out a bag of joints. We lit up and after the first one, we went inside to my boyfriend’s bedroom. Claire and I began to kiss and remove each other’s clothes. I started sucking and squeezing her fake firm tits while she was sucking my tits and fingering me. My BF took off his clothes and watched while we made out. We both moved to the floor and began sucking his big hard cock. I worked his cock while Claire sucked his huge balls.

Claire went down on me first. It’d been a while since I’d been with a girl and I almost forgot how much fun it is. Her tongue is amazing and I didn’t last long. I returned the favor but I wasn’t able to get her off but she told me she was close. I was able to make her very wet LOL. I was horny and wet and couldn’t wait for my boyfriend to fuck me. He rammed his cock inside me and it made a wet squishing sound. He was fucking me while Claire squeezed my tits and we kissed. My boyfriend’s cock is big and he knows what I like. His cock was pressing against my ‘spot’ with each thrust and I had my second orgasm. He pulled out and Claire went strait to his cock and sucked him.

Claire laid on her back and he began fucking her. I was kissing both of them until she turned over. She loves anal so when they started, I politely left so they could enjoy themselves. I don’t want to sound bad but I’m just not comfortable hanging around once the two of them start anal. They get crazy. She’ll suck him more and eventually they’ll rim each other. She’s rimmed me before and it’s not something I’m into. It’s a little different. I’m not into that stuff. I put on my boyfriend’s shirt and went outside to smoke another joint.

I slept on the couch and I could hear the two of them fucking all night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I woke up around 7am and the two of them were passed out on the bed. I took a shower, got dressed, went home and cooked breakfast for my dad. Then I spent the day playing golf with my dad and his friends.

I knew Claire was leaving sometime Sunday afternoon. After mass and brunch with dad, I went to my boyfriend’s place to say bye. They looked wasted. They both hadn’t showered and smelt like weed and alcohol. My boyfriend said he wanted to fuck Claire one more time before she left then he’d clean-up and come over for dinner. My dad’s friends were coming over to watch college basketball and I was cooking baked salmon and rice. I gave Claire a long deep kiss, squeezed her big firm tits one more time and left them to have fun.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BFF Beck. She’s cool with it.

Beck’s boyfriend.
He heard me telling Beck that Claire was visiting and staying at my boyfriend’s for a few days. He decided to lecture me on ‘values’. He doesn’t think my boyfriend’s ex should be staying with him because they will probably have sex. He told me I shouldn’t ‘ALLOW’ it and make her stay somewhere else. I’m not a controlling girlfriend and it doesn’t bother me AND he can keep his opinions to himself. I don’t like arguing but he likes to judge others and can be an arrogant ass. I’m glad Beck fucks around behind his back.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with my BF and a good friend at the same time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. It was all good.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think people can have sex and remain friends.
I don’t think I’m a bad person for ‘allowing’ my BF’s ex to stay with him when she’s in town. They’ve been friends longer than I’ve known them both. Besides, how can I ALLOW? I’m just a girlfriend.. sorry just venting about Beck’s boyfriend comments.
I’ve noticed that when one person in a relationship becomes over opionated, demanding and controlling, they soon have the title “single” because it’s only natural for the other person to look elsewhere. Life’s too short.
I don’t ever plan on becoming an opinionated, demanding or controlling girlfriend. I love my boyfriend too much. We’re perfect together and he’s amazing.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m glad my dad and my boyfriend get along well. They act like brothers when they’re together. I’m also glad my boyfriend and dad’s friends get along too. I enjoy evenings when everyone comes over for dinner and watch sports.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish more people would be open to having casual sex with someone they’re comfortable with.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’ve enjoyed sharing stories and reading other people’s experiences. I’m glad I’m not the only person that’s open minded about casual sex. There’s a lot of people having casual sex in society but only a few share stories.

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