What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? transportation
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? horny all the time
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
1st Time Cheating on Girlfriend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.5 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her on a dating site. Went on one date (no sex) and wasn’t overly impressed. Started dating my current girlfriend shortly after that. Her body was very nice but her face was just ok.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Started chatting with her online as friends. She started to ask about my sex life with my girlfriend. I mentioned that the blowjobs are not that good. She offered to give me the best blowjob of my life. After thinking about it for a while I agreed to it. Since I was going to cheat anyways I told her I wanted to have sex as well. She was down and offered it bare…..she loves it when men cum in her. Planned a day and she stopped over.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She arrived at my place and we went straight to the bedroom. She took off her top and bra. Next came her jeans…..no panties. My cock was hard and she pulled it out. I stripped and hopped on the bed and she proceeded to suck and boy was she good at it. It was the best of my life and I shot my cum down her throat while her finger was in my ass. After I recovered she started sucking again and when I was rock hard she hopped up on my cock bareback. She fucked me like a wild woman, and didn’t stop until I filled her with my cum. Then she got up, got dressed and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I thought I would feel guilty for cheating but I did not. It was almost empowering to cum in another woman.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? cumming in a woman that wasn’t my girlfriend. and the BJ.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? only happened once.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I never would have considered myself the type to cheat but I now know that I am and it turns me on.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is amazing. Its an easy way to get a quick nut if thats what you are after.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? love it
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