What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 12
7 Years My Senior, 2 Times My Pleasure
How long ago did this hookup happen? Summer 2014
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met over Tinder, she chatted me up and some sort of conversation started, can’t recall how it went, we eventuelly met up. She was about 7 years older than me, music and maths teacher and since I’m very much into music, we had something to discuss about. 5’9, good body, not a beauty but attractive.
We met up for some wine during the week and had a nice chat. We parted since she had to meet some friends but agreed to meet one more time. She invited over to hers, which was right around the corner.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I arrived at hers and she made some cocktails with her blender. I made fun of her since she used a book for the recipes. I suggested to just pour in and see how it tastes. It must’ve been the 2nd or 3rd cocktail in when things got frisky. She is pretty prissy for my taste but our conversation went somehow dirty with her being reluctant and me pushing things forward. We ended up talking with our faces coming closer to each other over time so it gave me the option to just kiss her at some point. She would not have moved towards me if she didn’t wanted this to happen so I guess we both instigated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out and moved on to her bedroom. Her kissing was weird, like an iguana tongue wise, but yeah, I didn’t care. Her response to my fingering and licking was awesome. She was very sensitive and vocal so I could tell she was enjoying herself. We ended up having missionary, doggy and her riding me, cumming pretty much at the same time. Since it was at hers, 1st floor, window open, very quiet street. and she was very loud all the time until she and I orgasmed heavily. It went silent and I heard a couple of people cheering and applauding from the street. That was quite funny.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was “busy” with another FWB that was more promising at that time (another story I’ve already posted), so I didn’t meet up with her again, although it was planned. Not too nice by me. We met again while doing grocery shopping about 6 months later, got into talking, I invited her to my Badminton group and asked her to come around to my new place sinced I moved even closer to hers. She came over on a Sunday afternoon, I asked her to check out my very new king size bed sheets (2,40m x 2,20m) and ended up fucking her again.
After that she said she was looking for something more substantial. She met her current boyfriend shortly after that and they are together since then (almost 2 years) and I’m very happy for her. We text ocassionaly and want to meet for a beer, luckily we get along very well.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? good Sex, finding a person to talk to
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended somehow, but legit reasons, so it’s all good
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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