A Former Neighbor



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? >20

A Former Neighbor

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s mid 50s, black hair, thin beard, sky blue eyes, nice body, married and used to live in our neighborhood.

They had moved in the neighborhood around 10 years ago with their daughter (one year older than me) and a son (2 years younger than me). My dad was still married to mom at the time and both our families would get together a few times a year. I remember his wife would come to our house and vent to mom about fights they’d had because of his infidelity. They lived in our neighborhood 3 years then sold their home and moved.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On this past Easter Sunday, dad and I bumped into him and his wife at the Celebration meal after mass. They both made comments about how much I’d grown since they last seen me. His wife loved my dress then went to a table with some ladies to eat and talk.

BTW: I was wearing the dress dad bought me. It’s a pink flared above the knee and sleeveless. I was also a white hat with flowers and new pink heels.

I stuck with dad because it’s rare he off work on Easter Sunday. Just as dad and I sat down, he asked to join us. Dad was polite but I could tell he was reluctant and said ‘yes’. I could tell by his mannerisms & conversation, he’s confident about himself AND he was checking out other women as they walked by. I always thought his eyes were sexy, now I’d become curious.

I was across the room getting refills and noticed he was giving me the ‘mentally undressing you’ look. I’m always welcome to attention from a hot guy and instantly I felt myself starting to get wet. We made eye contact and he gave a me an arrogant smile. I returned the favor with a with smile & wink.

I returned and we eye flirted when dad wasn’t looking. The conversation switched to SCUBA diving and dad told him he had two tanks he could have, but they needed to be recertified. He was willing to take them so we all exchanged numbers. Dad told him to contact me if he was on this side of town because he’s work schedule is unpredictable. BTW: I just caught dad in a little lie. His schedule is predictable. I’m thinking dad doesn’t want to be around this guy much.

On the ride home, I asked dad why they moved. He said they almost got divorced and were the process of liquidating everything but she took him back. Then he said, “She always takes him back.” He added that he’s a nice guy but he’s always cheating on his wife with young interns & secretaries. He’s arrogant and enjoys bragging about having “Numerous” mistresses. He said, “I don’t like him and I feel sorry for his wife. I’m SO glad they moved.” We got home and dad set the tanks out but instructed me not to make special effort to be available.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On Monday, I got a text asking if he could stop by Tuesday around 10am. I had a couple of classes but I could easily miss them. I replied with a thumbs up emoji. He arrived on time and I invited him in. To be a tease, I was wearing a small bikini I only wear at home around my pool. I told him I was getting ready to meet some friends at the beach. I noticed his sky blue eyes checking me out so I made a point to turn around and ask, “Does this look ok on me?” He looked at my ass nodded ‘yes’, he made an adjustment in his shorts then said, “I don’t want you to be late meeting your friends. I’ll grab the tanks and go.” I walked over, gave him a kiss, stuck my hands down his shorts and felt his warm hard cock and said, “I’m in no hurry. I was hoping you had time for some fun.” I pulled his shorts down and his cock popped out. He’s above average size, very thick and nicely groomed, which is always nice. I started sucking and he got hard quick. I could tell he was close then asked if he wanted to fuck. He said, ‘sure’ and I led him to my room. On the way, he grabbed my ass and gave it a smack, which I enjoyed.

I pushed him on the bed, sucked him more then put a condom on his cock. I got on top, positioned him at my entrance, lowered down and watched his thick cock enter me. His cock felt good stretching me open and I started cumming. We had great rhythm as I rode him. He started sucking my tits and caused me to have a quick orgasm. WHEW! I can usually last longer but I was extremely horny! He knew what just happened and with an arrogant tone he asked if I wanted more.

I moved to the edge of the bed and opened my legs and said, “I can take anything you’ve got. I want you to fuck me as hard and long as you want.” He walked between them and I put my legs over his shoulders. He with one motion, he slammed his cock inside me hard and began fucking me with fast deep thrusts. OMG! Instantly I was gushing. He stood up, I jumped on him and wrapped my legs around him as he held me in the air. Then, I got on the bed & stuck my ass in the air. He grabbed my hips and drove his cock inside me with one quick thrust. The sound of wet smacking echoed in the room as he fucked me. I was pulling the sheets as I had my second orgasm. He pulled into me tight and I could feel his cock swell and pulse as it filled the condom. He stayed inside me till he was finished. He gave my ass a smack as he slowly pulled out. I turned around and noticed the condom was full.

I jumped up on him and we kissed for a few then I insisted on making us lunch. We went to the kitchen and he told me he would love to fuck me again. I blushed, told him ‘thanks’. He got a long deep kiss for that comment. I think it’s nice to get compliments from an experienced guy. I told him I’d also love to hook-up again but we can’t meet here because I don’t want my dad finding out. He told me about an apartment his wife didn’t know about. He got it last year because she was constantly kicking him out. Now, he secretly renews the lease. I entered the address in my phone, he grabbed the tanks and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I met him at his secret apartment a few days later. We spent an hour having rough hard sex. Afterward, we walked to a sandwich shop, sat outside and talked. He’s a nice guy and we have similar opinions about relationships and casual sex. I’ll hook-up with him again because the sex is AMAZING plus it’ll be easy & convenient.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BFF Beck. She remembered when he lived in our neighborhood. She thought the hook-up story was hot and thinks its cool he has a secret apartment.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His stamina! We had sex for one hour! OMG! I was sore afterward and the next day.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. It was all good.
Awkward moments:
My nipples were red and sore the next day because he kept biting them. LOL
He was close to finishing during doggy and the mattress almost slid off the bed. My room looked like a hurricane had went through it afterward.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve always been open with having sex with my friends. I wish more people would try.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I recently began a relationship with a gentleman (Martin-not real name) that’s in his early 60s. I have strong feelings for him and we connect well together. Due to our age differences, he is insistent we are only ‘close friends’ with no commitment to be exclusive with each other. He encourages me to try dating younger guys. I was reluctant at first but now I plan to continue having a spontaneous hook-ups but never tell him.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish society would view having casual sex as being a part of a regular friendship.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s nice to read other people’s experiences. I think there are more people having casual sex but don’t have a good BFF to share the story with. This is a great place to anonymously share stories.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!