What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Indonesia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Hookup With A German Guy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? His name is L and he’s a very tall and average looking guy kinda nerdy in a way I could describe. I had no experience in hookup before so he was the first. I met him on social dating app and we texted for a day and we both decided to watch a movie and hang out together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was on way to meet him and he asked me if I’m okay if he went back to the hotel first as he was tired and needed a nap, I was okay with it so we ended up going back to his room. He asked me to lay down together and started to caress my face. He was planting soft kisses all over my place and touching me everywhere. At that time I felt so wrong yet so right because I was craving for some love affection.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He played with nipples and I felt instantly turned on. I have such a sensitive spot on my body and that’s my nipples. He then started to kiss it and lick it. As I was feeling the rush in my adrenaline, I start to stroke his cock back and forth while he still has his pants on. I asked if I could see it, and he willingly remove his pants and underwear. I was suprised to see a big cock sprung free in front of me and I took him inside my mouth. I sucked and licked him so hard that he keep moaning loudly and roll his eyes. I was getting more aroused but after the blowjob session, nothing more happened. We just laying down on bed and cuddled. He said that I did a good job as I can give good head. I told him that it was my first time giving head.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are still in a contact but I know what happened is a one time thing and it would not lead to more. I see him as just a friend as he also told me that he doesn’t feel anything more than lust during what happened.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more confident, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told this hookup to a guy who is my best friend. He was a bit disappointed in me and decided to ignore me for a few days.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I always have fantasies to get on with European guy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His private part smells and he is too hairy.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Just one time fun
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s like an obsession where most people is dealing with.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A good platform to share your dirty little secrets.
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