A Little Different…


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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Ireland
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

A Little Different…

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? On a shopping trip to NY with a group of friends, I was sharing a room with K, a girl I’d known for many years. We were close pals, were both in relationships with guys, and had never shown any inkling towards mutual attraction or attraction to other women…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? That evening we’d been in a bar with the larger group, and any sexual tension was through interaction with males who came our way. Two other friends had hooked up, but we didn’t stray despite opportunity and no doubt a little temptation! After a quiet nightcap K & I headed to our room a little tipsy, speculating about our “lucky” friends…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When in our room and preparing for bed, K raided the minibar and fixed another drink. She brought one to me in bed and I said jump in, which she did. We chatted and it was my turn to grab a drink…as I got out of bed, she complimented my ass, maintaining banter til I returned to more risqué talk along lines of “what would they think” if the others came into our room. Being something of a daredevil, I leaned to K, kissed her and said that would be worth talking about! What happened next was spontaneous kissing, gentle touching admiring each others bodies, leading to mutual fingering where we both orgasmed and dozed off…

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The following morning we were a little hesitant at first, but we laughed about it over a coffee, reassuring each other that it was just girly fun and we remain great friends to this day, but no repeat session!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Doing something completely unexpected

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was a one off and fun

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!