A Little Problem In Wichita

by Steve

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Palm Springs
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? always horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? over 10

A Little Problem In Wichita

How long ago did this hookup happen? 29 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Doris was about the same age as me, maybe a little younger. She was 5 foot 4, 130 pounds, with a nice ass, and tits about a 36 C.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was cruising some of the beer bars in Wichita looking for some fun and hoping for a hookup. She had been drinking in a beer bar when I met her and was pushing being drunk, but she knew what she was doing. I was sitting next to her, chatting her up and trying to get her interested in leaving the bar with me. After about a half-hour of talking, flirting, rubbing, and kissing her, she finally said: “let’s get out of here.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got in my car and she reached over the center console and began rubbing my already hard cock. She said, “wow, what have we got here”. She unzipped me and bent over to take the head of my cock into her mouth. She was giving me an OK bj. It wasn’t the worst, but definitely not the best I had. I knew of a quiet secluded spot not too far away so I drove there.

We got in the back seat and I pulled her pants and panties off and went down on her. Then I slid my finger into her and worked her clit over. She came really quickly. She said she wanted to suck me off so I pulled my pants down and she started sucking me again. She did a little better now that I was out from behind the wheel, but it still wasn’t great. She worked me over and I shot into her mouth. I didn’t ask first, I just let go.

She then told me she wanted me inside of her but didn’t want to do it in the car. I asked if she had a place to go to and she said that we could go to her place, that her boyfriend would be at work. Red flags went up, I hadn’t heard about a boyfriend but figured, what the hell, we are this far, lets go for it.

I followed her directions to a trailer park and stopped at the one she motioned me to. We went inside and snoring on the couch was her boyfriend! I told her it had been fun and I got out.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got out and headed back to the beer bar to look for my buddy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My buddies, they were happy that I got a bj, but bummed that she had a bf.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got a so so blow job and ate some sweet pussy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No penetration.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? After this, I tried to remember to ask if they had a bf or were married beforehand.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? as long as everyone is on the same page it’s great.

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