What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Traveling Affair
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? John is a guy I routinely run into while I’m traveling for work. He’s tall, muscular, clean cut, blonde hair, blue eyes, handsome & attractive. He’s in his mid-30s, played college football and now part owner of a small business.
I’ve been married 4 years, and I am a mother of one. I was a stay at home mom for a couple of years, but my husband’s spending habits forced me to look for a part-time job. I found a job working a few hours a week for a company that distributes medical supplies. I started out answering the phone and inputting orders in a small cubical area with 4 other women. Then I was asked if I would be interested in doing a little travel by attending 10 to 12 small business conferences a year. He said I was selected because I had an outgoing personality and had a professional appearance. It paid extra, came with a clothing allowance and a few other perks. I accepted.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met John at my first conference. He was in the booth next to me. I could tell by his body language and confident attitude he was a player. He started out polite but flirty. I noticed his eyes watching my every move. It wasn’t long and I was getting ‘one-liners’ and he was making strong efforts to hook-up with me. He’s attractive and I didn’t mind the attention, so I let him continue. He was able to give me advice on things like asking the hotel for a storage room for my stuff so I won’t have to carry it back to my room and stuff like that.
Afterward, we ate at the hotel restaurant. He was a gentleman but also very flirty with his hands. He got my chair but had to rub my shoulders. He kept petting my hand and placing his hand on my bare knee during dinner. I didn’t mind and kept things professional. When we finished, he politely asked me to come back to his room ‘for a drink.’ I declined his offer by showing him my ring finger and telling him I was happily married. He asked for a hug and I agreed. I noticed his hand slipping down to my ass, so I used my hand to move it back up to my waist. John was at the next three events and we became good friends. He never stopped pursuing me to have sex.
At the next event, I was clearing my area and John could tell I was stressed about something. We went to dinner and I told him how my husband and I had been fighting because he purchased a vehicle we didn’t need or could afford. The monthly payments were draining our bank account and I left still fuming at him. It was getting late so he invited me to his room for ‘a drink’. He was shocked I accepted. I looked in John’s blue eyes and started getting horny.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got inside his room and he offered me a glass of wine. I began taking off my clothes and said, “I didn’t come up here for a drink. I’m ready to give you what you’ve been wanting for months.” He grinned and within the blink of an eye his clothes were off. I admired his penis. It was very thick and much bigger than my husband’s.
I started out sucking him then I got in the bed. He surprised me with oral. I hadn’t had oral in a long time and soon he had me cumming. I needed sex so badly my body was shivering. He paused to ask if I prefer a condom. I told him I was on birth control and it was okay if we didn’t. I did ask him not to finish inside me because I only prefer that for my husband. He said, “Sure, I understand.” I watched as he positioned the head of his penis to my smooth vagina and pushed it inside me slowly. I was so wet, he slid inside easily. He started out slowly but I told him I needed it rough and hard. Just as I was getting into it, he pulled out and came on my stomach. He was embarrassed and apologized. I told him it was cool. He must have thought I was going to leave but I told him I was still horny and would hang out till he was ready again. The thought came in my mind, “I’m already having an affair, why not make sure I get satisfied plus he should last longer the second time.” He was relieved and we hung out. Within 10 minutes he was ready and so was I.
This time he did last longer. I started out on top then we moved around on the bed from there. We finished with me bent over the bed, and he came on my back. I gave him a long kiss and thanked him for the fun evening. He asked if we can hook-up again. I agreed. Then, to feed his already large ego, I told him how much I loved his huge penis size and that was better sex than my husband could ever pull off. He grabbed my ass and said, “Maybe I can cum inside you next time.” Being a tease I showed him my ring and playfully said, “Remember, I’m married.”
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went back to my room and took a shower. I noticed in the mirror my ass was still red from the smacking and grabbing. I didn’t feel bad about having an affair the night prior. There’s no emotional chemistry between John and I. We just had sex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having the opportunity to have sex with a handsome man with no chance of my husband finding out.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Looking back, I should have insisted John wear a condom. I’m on birth control but it’s not 100% I was in the moment and I wanted to feel his huge penis raw.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t know exactly what changed my mind and go back to John’s room for sex but it happened and I have no regrets. I plan to have sex with John again but I will insist on condoms.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? If you are in a situation where your spouse will never find out and someone you are attracted to but also feel comfortable around is hitting on you, I would recommend acting on it. Be smart & use protection but definitely try it before you turn the moment off. Once it’s turned off you might not get it back. We are on this earth for a short time and we should enjoy the pleasures while we can.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard?
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