What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Southern California
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Real Estate
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Insanely high sex drive
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I was a virgin until almost age 30, so a couple of years ago when my husband of 25 years suggested we try an open marriage again, I was more than happy to oblige. I’ve met some nice guys since then, and now have a longtime fuck buddy I see once every month or so.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cute European guy, age 33, nice muscular body. Great smile, kind eyes and a delicious mouth.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was actually on my way home around 2 a.m. after being out with a friend at a couple of bars. I’d had a couple of drinks, but wasn’t so buzzed that I couldn’t drive. However, it was raining hard and I accidentally hit a curb while making a left turn. I called AAA for emergency roadside service and when the tow truck pulled up I got out and met the driver in the rain. He had me pull my car forward a bit off the busy street onto the cross street that had a wider shoulder, facing oncoming traffic We ended up under an overpass so my car was shielded from the rain, and since it was so late only a few cars were driving by. While he put my spare tire on we were chatting, and I noticed that he was so nice and had a great smile and eyes. After he finished, I went to shake his hand but ended up hugging him. I was going to give him a kiss on the cheek but somehow our mouths met instead.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When our mouths met, the chemistry was incredible. My lips opened and his tongue plundered my mouth, plunging and twirling around my tongue, nipping at my lips. We were standing in front to of his truck, lights glaring in our faces, so I maneuvered us toward the driver’s side of my car, and opened both doors to shield us from any cars driving by. We were holding onto each other and kissing madly, and his hand was rubbing my pussy through my jeans. He kept telling me how pretty I was, and when he asked my age (55), he couldn’t believe how young I looked. He said he was 33 but had always been attracted to older women. I was sooo turned on, and could feel his hard cock through his pants. I sat down in my driver’s seat and started to unbuckle his pants but he stopped me. He told me he had a wonderful girlfriend and he felt that if I continued he would feel as if he was cheating. But he said he wanted to make me feel good, so he unzipped my jeans and pulled them down around my knees, lowering his mouth to my clean-shaven pussy. His tongue on my clit was driving me crazy, and when he slid his finger inside my dripping wet pussy and began plunging it in and out, I lost all control. I leaned back onto the passenger seat, pushing my hips up to meet each thrust of his finger. He was curling his finger with each inward stroke, rubbing my g-spot. It was amazing and I was literally screaming in ecstasy as my pussy juices were flowing like a river onto his hand. I begged him for more fingers so he added two more, and oh my god, it was amazing. He was leaning down and sucking my clit while finger-fucking my cunt as hard and fast as he could. Every now and then he would look up and as our eyes locked he would spank my clit with his other hand. I was squirting my juices nonstop, and with each slap of his hand on my clit I would get sprayed in the face with my own liquids!! I was gasping for breaths, my back arching, and my screams were so loud I’m sure I awakened the transients who were sheltering beneath the overpass less than 100 feet away!! The fact that they, or anyone driving by, could possibly see what was happening made it all the more erotic!!! He gave me so many orgasms, or was it one long orgasm?? I finally collapsed from the exhaustion of coming so much. I sat up and we kissed and I licked and sucked my pussy juices off his fingers. The look on his face as my lips tightly wrapped around his fingers and sucked them in and out of my mouth was evidence that being loyal to his girlfriend was extremely difficult. I slid my hand down his waistband, into his pants, and closed my fingers around his rock hard cock. Precum had soaked the head of his cock so I used it to lubricate his shaft, then brought my fingers to my lips and licked the remainder, savoring the taste. My hand went back inside his pants and I stroked his cock while kissing his delicious lips. He finally stopped me, but I made him promise that he would jerk himself off in his truck later, while thinking of me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? As we kissed goodbye, he let me know that he had my cell number (from my AAA call) and that he would be in touch. I sure hope he calls me!! Although I don’t want to mess up his relationship with his girlfriend’, I seriously am dying to experience all of his other skills, as well as wrap my tight lips around that hard tasty cock!!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my long-time fuck buddy, as he knows how crazy high my sex drive is and how much I love being a slut sometimes.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The unexpected passion that erupted between us was amazing!! I fell asleep with my fingers on my clit, dreaming of one day having this hot guy pleasure every inch of my body.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing at all. Well, except today I have to go get a new tire! Haha
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think I’ve ever had such instantaneous attraction with someone I’d only met a few minutes. While I don’t know if anything like this will happen ever again, I don’t think I’d pass it up if it did.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? While he was finger-fucking me he was telling me that he is really into different sexual experiences, and said that he’d love to tie me up, upside-down, and make me scream from nonstop orgasms until I was begging him to fuck me.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I really wish society would be less judgmental about not being monogamous. I truly have never understood how one person can be expected to only have sex with their spouse for the rest of their lives.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is really a cool project and I enjoy reading the.stories.
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