What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? >5
How long ago did this hookup happen? couple of days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My dad works for an airline & is usually gone for 4 to 5 days at a time. On departure day, I’ve always gone to the airport and given him one final hug. When I got my DL, I started walking with him to the gate, and I would hang out until the flight left and the check-in officer assured me the flight was encountering no problems. My boyfriend and friends know not to schedule anything with me these days. I spend extra time with my hair and make-up and wear a cute dress and heels. He tells me I look like I’m going to Easter service.
I’d just left dad at the gate and went to the overlook to watch his plane leave. A guy walks over and begins talking to me. He’s in his mid 40s, wearing a wedding ring, is smooth-shaven, with clean-cut hair that’s starting to gray on the sides, and he was wearing an orange golf polo and looked very nice. He asked if I was waiting for someone to arrive. I told him my dad just left and I was watching for his plane to leave. He said, “By the way you’re dressed, I thought you were waiting for a boyfriend returning home from military service.” I told him that was a nice compliment.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The guy was in town for a few days on business and had to hang out at the airport until he could check into his hotel. He was very nice and I thought he was hot, so we got some coffee and talked. During the conversation, his wife called to make sure he’d arrived okay and let him talk to his kids. While he was doing that, I walked around to check the flight schedule and talk to the check-in officer. She confirmed the flight took off on time and there were no problems. I took a sigh of relief and went back to finish my coffee. He was now off the phone. I had no plans and our conversation was going well, so I agreed stayed a little longer. At one point I put my hand on his leg, leaned in, and we kissed. We talked some more until he told me it was time for him to check into his hotel room. I offered to drive him so he wouldn’t have to wait for the hotel shuttle. He didn’t want to inconvenience me. I insisted I wanted to and I’d be willing to help him to his room too. He gave me a grin and we left.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He checked in and I held his hand as we went to his room. We got inside, took our clothes off and I straddled him on the bed and rode his cock. He got off quickly and thanked me for a great time as I got dressed. I left and we didn’t exchange numbers or contact info.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went home and waited until my dad sent me a text that he’d arrived alright. I changed my clothes, then went to my boyfriend’s place and I told him about it. He got excited and fucked me until I had an orgasm.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? To feel better about myself, I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend. We had amazing sex after I told him.
I’ll tell my BFF the first chance I get. I know she’ll be cool with it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hooking up with a random guy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He didn’t last very long and I didn’t feel like he was someone I’d hang out with to fuck again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I enjoy hooking up with random guys.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish more people would try having casual sex with a random person (using protection).
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s nice reading other’s experiences.
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