What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Wichita
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 400+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Many


What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I knew her from school as she dated one of my friends. She was always quiet and never said a lot, though they had fucked in front of me several times. They broke up and I didn’t see her for a few years until I was living with family and she moved back to town. Fast forward 15+yrs. I found her online out of boredom and hit her up. We talked for a few weeks and then decided to meet at a bar and have some drinks.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We decided to get together and just catch up. I never had any intention of sleeping with her. We had a good time at the bar, but we both had a bit too much to drink. We started to kiss. She told me to follow her back to her place. We were going to hang out there until I was sober enough to drive across town. We kicked back and were watching TV when she got up, took my hand, and led me to her room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

I don’t remember a lot of the details as most of the night is foggy. I remember that we were making out like kids: hands in each other’s pants, up each other’s shirts sort of thing. Then I remember our clothes coming off. I was fingering her when she grabbed me and moved me between her legs. I slipped right into her. We had some fairly passionate sex, lots of kissing and nibbling and she came several times. When I was ready to cum, I let go deep inside of her. She had her legs wrapped around me, keeping me inside her and after several minutes of being inside her, I started to fuck her again. I don’t remember how long we went the second time or how many times she was able to cum but I came inside her again. I stayed inside her again for several minutes and probably could have gone a 3rd time, but we decided not to. I got dressed to head home and she stayed in bed. When I was ready to go, she got up and with nothing but a sheet wrapped around her, walked me to the door and gave me one more great kiss. She went to bed with my two loads of cum inside her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Neither one of us regretted it

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was the only time she and I ever had sex and we lost touch soon after. I have not been able to find her since.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

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