What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual


How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Angelica or Angie as she goes by is around 5’6″, long brown hair, freckles, nice b cups, not too bad of an ass. I’ve known her for many years and have flirted with her but never got anywhere with her. It’s been a while since I’ve seen her and she has put on some weight. Not fat but definitely not petite like she used to be.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was home alone last night and downloaded tinder just to see who is on there. I swiped through a few girls I thought were cute and then came to Angie’s. I went into her profile and looked at her pictures. She had all older pics and figured maybe she didn’t use it anymore. I swiped right on hers and kept looking through. About 10 minutes later I got a message from her. She must have swiped right on mine as well. It just said hey. I shot back a hey and asked how she had been. She asked if I was still dating the one girl. I said yes. I was expecting her to stop talking to me at that point. She said that’s cool and then asked if I wanted to come over to her place and hang out. I said sure and she sent me her address. I arrived and knocked on her door. She answered it and I was sort of surprised. She had put on some weight. She had on a t-shirt and a pair of sweats. Not super attractive looking but whatever. She gave me a hug which is the first time we ever have done that. I went inside and she offered me a drink which I accepted. We sat on the couch. She started the conversation off with it was good to see me. She said it had been a while and she wasn’t sure if I knew she had gotten married. I said no. She said they were married for about a year and then he wanted a divorce and told her it was because she let herself go. I said I was sorry and she thanked me. She then asked why I had come over. I said honestly I was looking to have sex. She said oh. She said she had not had sex in a few months since the divorce and had only swiped right on me as she knew me and wanted someone to talk to. She asked if I just wanted to hang out with her for a while so she wouldn’t be alone. I said sure. We sat and drank our drinks and watched some TV. I had almost given up any hope of getting laid when she moved closer to me and leaned against my shoulder. I moved my hand down onto her leg started to rub. She said that felt nice. I wasn’t sure how far I should push it with our prior conversation. I moved my hand up her leg and stopped just short of her crotch. She started to rub my arm. I decided to go for it and turned towards her and gently pushed her back on the couch. She looked at me with those brown eyes and laid down. I leaned down with her and we began to kiss. At first, she was cold and didn’t move. Then she responded and started to kiss me back. She even stuck her tongue into my mouth. I ran my hand up her side and under her shirt. I felt her tits with her bra still on and they seemed nice. I worked my way down and pulled down her sweatpants. She didn’t have on any underwear. She had a small Bush surrounding her pussy which was cute. She looked nervous and I asked what was wrong. She said she didn’t feel attractive. I assured her she was.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went down on her and licked her pussy. I fingered her hole and flicked her clit as I did. She started to moan and breathe heavier. She grabbed my head and guided me to where she wanted me. She seemed to be getting into it now. She came hard and moaned very loudly. When she was done with her orgasm I stood up and pulled down my pants and boxers. She asked if I wanted her to suck me or to fuck her. I asked which she preferred and she said fuck her. I got down on the couch in between her legs and lined up with her pussy. She asked if I had a condom and I said no. She told me to just pull out when I was close. I pushed into her sweet pussy and it felt so tight and warm. I went all the way in and she grabbed my ass and pulled me in with each stroke. We fucked like this for several minutes before she asked to get on top. We switched and she sat down on my cock. It felt great sliding back into her. She rode me for several minutes before she clenched up and came again. She said she wanted me to cum. It only took a few more minutes before I was close. I told her I was getting close and she said ok. She pulled all the way up so just the tip of my cock was in her still. She rocked back and forth on top of me. It felt amazing and I started to cum. She felt my first shot go into her I assume as she sat all the way back down onto my cock and rode me hard. I pumped her pussy full. She leaned down and we kissed for a while. She then got off of me and went to the bathroom. When she came back she thanked me for the great sex and apologized for being such a bitch to me in the past. She told me not to worry about her saying anything and if I wanted to hook up again she would be down.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She gave me her number and kissed me goodbye. I’m not sure if I want to continue to hook up with her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. He thought I was cool I finally got to smash her

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally hooked up with her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was awkward at first

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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