At the Beach



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? México
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student and administrative assistant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

At the Beach

How long ago did this hookup happen? This weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I know him because we go to the same school and I had greeted him a couple times. He is a handsome man with a great sense of humor.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were hanging out with a group that night and I was flirting with him, then we started kissing and ended up in his room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In his bedroom, we kept kissing and touching over the clothes, and I told him that we weren’t going to have sex and he said that it was fine. But eventually, I was too horny to not fuck. He used a condom but we ended up without it. I saw it outside in his hand. It was kind of weird because I’ve had only two vaginal sexual partners before him and when I went to the bathroom I noticed that I was bleeding. I don’t really know what caused it. It might have been because he had a wide penis and I’m only 1.55m in height. I will go to a gynecologist to check if everything is fine.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little impressed because it’s not something I usually do. Before having sex with someone, I typically have a previous friendship or some kind of relationship with them.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Because I liked when we were making out and I enjoyed the foreplay, but I wasn’t sure about having vaginal sex.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Kissing him

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being drunk and that we weren’t discreet about it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is ok, as long as you are in agreement about how it’s going to be exclusively sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think that it’s an interesting project.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!