At the Gym



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 16
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Belfast
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Two
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

At the Gym

How long ago did this hookup happen? Five years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I wasn’t bisexual at the time, but I did think this guy was very nice looking. I thought it was never going to happen because I was so young, I didn’t know him that well except saying “hello” every time I saw him at the gym and we would both smile at each other which I wouldn’t do to anyone else.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I would usually go to the gym with my sister’s boyfriend about 3 or 4 times a week, and I would see this guy nearly every time I was there. I would be more friendly with him because I did think he was attractive and we would often catch each other looking which I think led to this hookup.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This one time when I wanted to go to the gym my sister’s boyfriend couldn’t make it, so I went alone. Suddenly we ended up beside each other, and he said to me, “here by yourself tonight then?” and I said back to him, “yeah, he couldn’t make it tonight,” and he responded, “good luck then, I’m going to get changed” and I said back, “okay then see ya” and he said “hopefully I will” and he giggled a bit and I knew exactly where he was going so I gave it 5 more minutes until I followed him into the changing rooms. I saw him walk past me to get into the shower with the towel just covering his penis, and I couldn’t stop looking, and he caught me and laughed. I smiled at him as if to say “I want you.” He asked if I was showering and I said no and he then replied, “just in here to spy on the men then? Why don’t you join me and you can see what this is really like”. I told him I would be a minute and I stripped my clothes and rushed over to the shower he entered, and he said, “I was hoping to see you,” then started kissing me and I felt his huge erection press up against my cock. I got down and started sucking on him, and he asked if he could fuck me. I kept sucking and didn’t reply while I was thinking about it, and he told me he had shower gel that would make it easier. I got up and told him to do it slowly for me, and he started squeezing shower gel all over my ass and his cock and then started to push up my nice tight ass, and it felt good, but it was a little bit painful. He began to move a bit faster while I was quietly moaning. Eventually, he pulled out and cummed all over my ass and back, and I turned around and looked up at him, still erect, and he came over and started wanking me off for a while, and then he sucked me off until I came into his mouth. Then he got up and started rinsing and got out to dry off. By the time I got out of the shower and into the changing rooms, he was gone. And I did see him after that in the gym.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, nothing really happened except when I saw him entering the bathroom I walked in, and he said “you coming in here for blowjobs?” and I said, “why, are you looking for one?” And he replied, “it’s up to you.” So, I told him to come into the cubicle with me, and I sucked his dick until he pulled out and finished all over my face.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t discussed this with anyone at all because no one knows that I am bisexual.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that it happened because that’s all I wanted at the time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I didn’t get to fuck him but he probably didn’t want that to happen.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish it could happen again

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