What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States of America/ Seattle
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retail
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Extremely Horny most of the time.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? K was a fair skinned girl significantly younger than me, she was probably 22 or so at the time. She was a little curvy, big breasts, had blonde hair and glasses. I didn’t know her exceptionally well. We had been working together in an office for about a month or so, and a group of us got sent to a different location across the state for work training. They put us all up in separate hotel rooms for 3 weeks. We had never hooked up before, and to be honest I didn’t ever really think about it before it happened. I’m a very horny guy, and I picture what it would be like having sex with just about every woman I meet. She was a cool girl, kind of feisty and sarcastic, we were both stoners and smoked a lot of pot, but never together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The group of 5 of us had kind of planned on going out for drinks after “work”(training), but it ended up only being her and I. We went to this Cantina across the street from our hotel and began drinking margaritas. We both got a little loose lipped and she told me how she just had broken up with her boyfriend for this and that reason… and I was sharing stories with her about my previous girlfriends before I got married and the kinds of crazy stuff we did.
We decided to go back to the hotel for more drinks, even though we were both pretty drunk by that point. I told her I had more alcohol up in my room and she did too, so she went back to her room and brought up a bottle of wine. She came in my room and without even thinking I led her to the back bedroom and turned on the TV, thinking that we would just drink in bed and watch TV. She was a little surprised by this and I guess had planned on just drinking in the kitchen or the living room, but she followed me very eagerly. We laid down and drank a little bit, and I’m not sure who really instigated it, we were both pretty smashed, but we started kissing on the bed and one thing very much led to another.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I laid on top of her as we kissed heavily, I kissed her neck and ran my hands down her body, and she unbuttoned her shirt and brought her breasts out for me to suck on. I got the impression that she really, really likes that. They were pierced, so I played with the nipple barbells with my tongue, and as I did, my hand wandered in between her legs and I started rubbing her pussy. I could feel the heat from on top of her pants, and she was getting more and more into it, breathing heavier and starting to moan, so I reached in her pants and started fingering her. She was clean shaven. She was a young girl with not a ton of sexual experience, so she was very tight. As I was fingering her, things got white hot and the clothes shedding and start of the sex happened kind of quickly. She reached up and unbuttoned my pants and started to pull them off the best she could. I responded by pulling her pants off her hips. She helped, and then she pushed my pants down to my ankles with her feet. She pulled my lower body in close in between her legs, and I immediately kind of guided my extremely hard cock into her pussy bareback. I got in a couple of inches before I had to make some effort to proceed further; as I said, she was a tight girl. I pushed into her further, and she moaned, starting to grip into my asscheek and shoulder. I thrust in again and found she got even hotter and tighter. Once I got all the way inside her we spent a good long while fucking hard once she stretched out a little bit. She said things like, “ohmigod, you’re so deep..” and lots of “fucks”. She had a powerful orgasm probably 5 or so minutes into sex, and I just kind of stayed inside her and rolled with her pelvis.
During the sex I was totally overtaken by drunken horniness. She also was extremely horny, very drunk, and all too eager. She loved every minute of it, and was a very enthusiastic, giving lover. There really wasn’t much talk, we were both too into the feeling of it; me being deep inside her and how good it felt for the both of us.
I don’t know exactly how much time went by, but we had sex for a good, satisfying, long time, and I told her I had to cum, and asked her where she wanted it. She said, “Anywhere you want.” I told her “I want to cum in your pussy.” She said. “…yeah… yeah…” I thrusted one more time as hard and deep as I could and blew a huge load deep inside her. She squealed as she felt me spurt, and flexed around me as I throbbed in her, her eyes closed and head sunken into the pillow. I finished cumming and she slowly and gently pulled me out of her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After she left, we saw each other in training the next day and played it off like nothing happened. The next day I was wracked with guilt, but at the same time it was so hot that I masturbated thinking about it the next day. I knew it was a one time thing and it wouldn’t go anywhere, but it was hot and a lot of fun.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I let my hormones and my consumption of alcohol get the best of me and it left me with a little bit of permanent guilt, like I’ll always know it happened.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing about this hookup was that she was so tight, so eager, and cumming deep in her pussy felt indescribably divine,.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst thing about this hookup was the knowledge it happened, moving forward forever. it was a mistake and definitely shouldn’t have happened, but it felt amazing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me realize that we’re all human and we all make mistakes, sometimes horrible mistakes. It’s made me judge people differently. We can all act holier than thou when we’re in the presence of our spouses, children, friends, family, but we all make mistakes.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think the occasional threesome or letting another person into the bedroom (I’d prefer another woman) can really help open things up and allow a much healthier sex life.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a great tool for posting hot stories other people can read, get into, post on, and get things off their chest.
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