What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Denmark
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Architect
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Back In Town
How long ago did this hookup happen? Half a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Redhead, athletic, with tattoo, know her from high school (same class), but not a friend.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both lived in different countries and we returned shortly for holiday to our birthplace. We went for a walk to share our experience from living abroad, later in the night, we messaged each other, I made some hints and she mentioned her parents are not home, so I went to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed, performed oral sex on each other, vaginal sex, a bit rougher type of sex but nothing too kinky. It felt liberating. I guess we just wanted to let off. She was a great lover. After the act, I went back home. We are still acquintances, but nothing else, was just for that one night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt nice. And I still do. It was just sex, nothing less nothing more, no expectations.
Remember the experience fondly. Maybe we might meet each other someday, who knows, for one more night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with someone who genuinely enjoyed it just for its sake.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Hard to arrange, we were lucky to have opportunity.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I do not think casual sex is bad.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is fine if people mutually want it. I would love people to talk about sex in all kinds more openly.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting to reflect on the act after some time. Good to clear things in head.
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