What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Oklahoma, USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Versatile
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20 plus
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple of weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a stocky but handsome guy. He has dark hair, he’s in his mid-30s and white. We met on a hard to find road that he led me to. I was excited to mess around with him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been looking around on my grindr profile, and when he popped up and we started chatting, I realize that he lived awfully close to me. This initially caused me to be leery, but he talked me into meeting anyway. We went out to a back road that was so remote that I thought I was driving on a private property and I had to make sure that he was okay to be back there. When I got back there, he was there standing next to his truck.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After I decided the coast was clear, I immediately stripped down to my underwear, per his request. He complimented me. I then drop down to my knees and pulled out his cock from his pants. I admired for a second and then started sucking. It was amazing to feel him get hard in my mouth. I hadn’t had a guy in some time, so I was really excited. As I sucked, he started to pull his clothes off more and more. After he was fully nude, I stood up and took off the rest of my clothes. We embraced and rubbed our bodies against each other. This was amazing. As we did this our hands were all over each other’s cocks. I turned around, and let him rub his cock all over my ass and my back. He enjoyed this, and I wanted more. I grabbed a condom out of my pant pocket and gave it to him. We then tried several ways to try to get his cock inside me, but he wasn’t hard or big enough. I told him that it was okay, and went back down on him. He said he was really enjoying this and was close to cumming, but he wanted to come on my cock. So I pulled him out of my mouth and stood up to where I can jack him off. He came all over my cock, and quite a bit. This really turned me on, and I used his cum to jack off for him. He seemed to enjoy the show and I soon came myself. We cleaned up and got dressed. I said thank you and we left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We occasionally talk on Grindr. We haven’t hooked up again, but probably will eventually. I feel pretty good about this experience.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The chance to enjoy our bodies together.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That he wasn’t able to fuck me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy posting and reading it.
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