Bar Pickup



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Always Frisky
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+ ??
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bar Pickup

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was someone I had seen at the bar before. Usually with friends. Last night I went there about 1am when I saw her in a cute lowcut summer dress with a frizzy bob like haircut. She had a drink in hand and was sitting by herself. When she saw me she smiled (great smile) so I sat beside her and started chatting.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After chatting for a half hour and another drink she was starting to get touchy feely. I asked if she wanted to go for a drive when the bar closes and she told me she knew a great spot we could park. I pretty much could tell where this was going at this point so we quickly settled up and left. We made out for a while in the car before I started it up and told her to direct me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drove a short distance with me massaging her pussy through her panties and soon we parked at this great spot near the top of the city where we could see the stars. We got out of the car and I pressed her firmly against it as we made out. Our hands were roaming everywhere. She soon flipped us around so I was pressed against the car. She dropped to her knees and pulled down my jeans and boxers freeing my erection. She took it all the way into her mouth and proceeded to give me an amazing blowjob. After a bit she put my hands on her head and told me to fuck her mouth hard. I did this for a while until I felt it was time to return the favor. I stood her up, peeled off her dress and laid her on the hood of my car. I kissed down her body, removing her panties as I went. I went down on her for about 5 minutes before she was panting for me to fuck her. I rolled a condom on and slid inside in one quick motion. I went slowly at first teasing her and then as she begged for harder and faster I really started pounding her. She kept covering her own mouth as her screams were echoing off the surrounding hills. I finished in the condom and we continued to make out a while longer before I drove her home. We exchanged numbers.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Texted the next day and all was well. We may meet up again 🙂

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends that know me. They just laugh at how often this happens for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex with a view!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Condoms. But wont play without them.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Fun and fancy free is the way to be!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People arent meant for monogymy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site! Reading for years, first time postimg.

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