Bathhouse Haze



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bathhouse Haze

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Older guy, probably 55. White, bald, goatee, hairless, tall, good shape. HUNG. DOMINANT.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a particularly long night of heavy drinking with old friends downtown, I started to stumble home. it was about 2 or 3 am. I had occasionally fantasized about gay sex and was aware of a small bathhouse down an alley. In my drunk and horny state, I decided to look it up again on my phone and eventually wandered in.

I arrived as a young drunk attractive sweaty mess and the doorman gave me a room key and towel. I had no idea how this worked. Eventually, I found the room, stripped nude, and walked to the public shower area.

There was a man in there when I was washing up. He looked me up and down while I soaped myself all over. After walking around for a few minutes with a small towel around my waist I ran into him again in the dark hallway near my room. Without saying much we wound up in there together.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I immediately dropped my towel and pulled his off. His cock was…….HUGE….. probably 8 or 9 inches, cut, very thick and shaved. Dropped to my knees and started going to town sucking it. He moved to close the door to the room but I was feeling so horny and told him to keep it wide open. After a few minutes of sucking, he put me on my back on the small bed in the room. (This is all very hazy to this day)

He put my ankles on his shoulders and slid his bare cock head against my tight virgin asshole. Seriously. After a lot of prodding, he eventually slipped in, then slipped in deeper. I realized he was barebacking me and asked him to get a condom. He muttered something, then left, then returned with a bottle of lube. No condom. I said fucked it and took him hard and raw with the door open in several positions for about 30 minutes. At one point I remember moaning “fuck me, daddy, fuck me deep, daddy” over and over. Who knows how many people walked by to watch?

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I don’t remember anything else other than walking back out onto the cold street with warm cum and lube dripping between my thighs. But I was happy and satisfied.

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, ever.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

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