by Rachel

Gender: Female
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Freelance Designer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met in Canada I was visiting some friends there.  We were all at a party and he was a friend of a friend.  He was Australian, dark hair, not particularly tall.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He instigated it we were drinking and drinking a lot.  We decided to go round the corner for a smoke and ended up making out instead.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? People were milling about so we decided to go into the downstairs bathroom.  He picked me up and starting going down on me.  It was ok but nothing special.  I gave him head briefly before he fucked me. It was over relatively quick.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t.  He did

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We’d been at a party.  He was hot it seemed like a good idea.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had both been drinking for a while.  Not completely intoxicated but pretty drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that we went back to the party.  He asked me to come home with him I declined.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to a couple of my friends at the party the next day.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely consensual not 100% satisfying

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not regret.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? He was hot.  I didn’t come but it wasn’t the worst.  We were both a little too drunk.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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