What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Perth
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Reliving something I craved in the past but failed to explore, women. I prefer my women young.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week back
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Let’s say her name is Claire (beautiful name). I met her when she was still in kindi. She was 4. Fast forward to 2018, a fine young woman, now 25. Beautiful body, fit, single, available, and curious. Claire was my BFF’s youngest daughter, someone whom I have grown very much to love, and I had always imagined a day I got to hold her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Rewind 7 days ago, my 58th birthday. After dinner with my hubby, he drops me at Claire’s place for what supposedly was for drinks, the actual reason was the day I finally got to taste her. The BFF was out with her hubby for a trip. We were alone, Claire was the curious one, and we had planned her first night some time ago.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was in her pajamas, we headed to her room. I kissed her passionately and she kissed back. Gave her a little oral until she came. Had some strap-on pleasure on her, she straddles the dildo and rode it. We cuddled off till the next day.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We did it again the next morning before breakfast, and then at night. She came over the 3rd day while hubby was at work in the morning and we chatted before I instigated another round.
She was very into it. I loved her, still do. She’s become my new friend with benefit.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Just kept to us girls.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She’s the love of my life, besides my hubby. My girlfriend now, my FWB, and casual partner.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Probably none. Probably anal sex. Something I plan to introduce while having sex with her another day. It’s a special practice I guess needs to be done. I’d love to break her cherry.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Never has it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Well if you like someone, chase her or him before they leave.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Don’t want it to change.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Some interesting stories here. I prefer reading those to with women sleeping with women, not necessary lesbian-themed but more of curious girls taking a chance.
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