What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Big Girl Taken From Behind
How long ago did this hookup happen? yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? N is a 23 year old Australian girl. She is very voluptous. I know that many would complain that she is overweight, but I really like big girls. She has short reddish hair, green eyes, very white skin, huge breasts arse and belly. I met her on Tinder.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been going out with G for a while, see my first story. I think we got along fine and i had sex with her often, but she broke up with me because she felt that I am just too young for a true relationship to work. So then I didn’t have time to look for a new partner and just recently got back on Tinder. N was an immediate swipe because she is so gorgeous with her big body. We matched and were chatting back and forth for about two weeks. I sensed that she has some self esteem issues. Sometimes she can be snappy and cynical. She didn’t like it when I told her she is good-looking. Maybe she is even depressed.
Finally, I asked her out and she invited me to her place for coffee yesterday Sunday afternoon.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? N seemed to be a bit bored at first and tight lipped. I felt a bit unsure about myself and at first was not very optimistic about this encounter. For example, when I mentioned that I was surprised that she was fine with me coming to her place on a first date, she gave me the snarky remark, “It is faster this way”. I didn’t know how to respond and there was a moment of awkward silence.
We sat down on the sofa and had coffee. She invited me to sit closer to her. I started some timid touching to which she responded quite affirmatively. She really loosened up once I had touched her.
We soon started kissing. Without me prompting, she got her boobs out for me. I happily started to fondle and suckle them. N bluntly asked me whether I wanted to fuck her. I gave her the honest answer and she asked me to join her in the bedroom as this is more comfortable for her.
We both got undressed and started fooling around. N. let me kiss lick her massive arse for many minutes. I must have spent five minutes just licking deep inside her anus. I loved it. N’s arse is so big that I wondered whether my penis would be long enough to penetrate her in the doggystyle position which I intended to do. N told me that she would not let me fuck her anus when she realised how much I enjoyed her rosetta. I told her that I wanted to bring her joy in the right way. She gave me a condom and I positioned myself to pound her from behind. I realised that it was not a problem. Her cheeks felt so nice on my thighs and the sound of our flesh clashing again and again was mesmerizing. Unfortunately, N was not much of a moaner. So I am not even sure I gave her an orgasm. I sure hope so.
After I had done the deed and the semen was in the condom, I tried to cuddle with N. but she was not very receptive. Again, there was this awkward silence and I realised that this was only meant to be a one night stand. I soon left her. She gave me a kiss good bye, but said nothing about wanting to see me again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I want to meet her again, but I am not so sure whether I am welcome to text her again. I just gave her a quick message that i had enjoyed our meeting, but no reply yet.
I don’t see us having any relationship. I think N just wanted a quick fuck date, that’s it. I would be happy to provide her another one, but I have the idea that she does not want to. I don’t know, she did not give me the vibe that she is interested in me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told a friend of mine. He is a bit envious that I get to fuck beautiful Australian girls.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was N’s body, If I have to be honest. I just love big girls. I think N feels a bit bad about her body, but I like the fat. She could have me anytime.
I liked how she accepted that I could lick her arse as long as I wanted to. I loved taking her from behind.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I somehow feel that N just used me as a dildo. Our conversation was not very long. I think she just wanted me to come to her house for quick sex without any feelings. That makes me feel a bit sad. Sad for her as a person, but also i feel used even though I enjoyed the sex.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I just got a huge ego boost out of this experience. i learned that it is quite easy to get casual sex in Australia. I will do that until I find a real partner. There are plenty of big women on Tinder here and I am already in conversation with the next one.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think Australians are doing it all the time. I just started to join in the fun.
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