Current location: Oregon
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Long term relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This girl named Katie was a TA at the college I went to. She was probably 3 years older than me. She was very pretty with long curly brunette hair. She wasn’t what I would call “fat” but she was “thick”. She’s the biggest girl I’ve ever done anything sexual with. Although, to be clear, she’s not what I would call fat. I knew her casually from talking at school and seeing her out around town.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in a band with a couple of friends and we had some friends over to party. We had parties like this a lot where we played music and drank and hung out. Super casual. I didn’t really plan on hooking up with her, but I invited her over to hang out with us. Everybody else went to bed and we were left up alone and we started making out and feeling one another up on one of the couches. I think she sort of instigated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Our hookup was pretty long. We were making out intensely and I started fingering her and then lifted up her dress and pulled down her panties and ate her out until she came. She kinda giggled and was satisfied and then she pulled out my dick and gave me head until I came and she swallowed. We laid there a while then smoked a cigarette then ended up making out again. She was ready so I slid it in and we started having sex in sort of a spoon position. Then I got on top. After that she pushed me down on the couch and sucked my dick some more and then rode me pretty hardcore for a while. Then I bent her over and we fucked hard until I came. I told her I was going to cum and she spun around and sucked me off and swallowed again.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes. She had 3 orgasms (1 from oral, 2 during sex) and I had 2 (1 from oral, 1 from sex)
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. Not my proudest moment. At one point we said we should probably be using a condom but neither one of us had one and I told her I’d pull out.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were pretty drunk and attracted to one another and horny.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes. We were both drunk, but not super drunk. Maybe 4-5 drinks each.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we cuddled a little and kissed some more. She got feelings for me and told a bunch of our friends about how great it was. She pursued me for more but I wasn’t really interested or emotionally available at the time. We remained friends though.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my buddies the morning after. All they cared about was that I had fucked on their couch and wanted to make sure no juices were on the couch haha.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, consensual and wanted.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really. I felt bad that she wanted more after that happened but she seemed to understand and was okay with it just being a one night stand.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about the hookup was that it was fun drunk sex. She had a big ass that was fun and she gave great head and swallowed which is awesome. The worst part? I’m not sure…there wasn’t anything very bad about it. Her breath smelled like wine and I didn’t like wine so maybe that was the worst part?
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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