Birthday Gift (Sort Of)

by A Man

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Russia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Birthday Gift (Sort Of)

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M. was my bandmate. We played together in a band, she was a singer. That band somewhat went on hiatus and we continued to rehearse together on another project.

She was (is) a blonde, fit girl, 5,5 Ft tall with B-cup breasts and nice ass. She wasn’t that beautiful in face, but surely not ugly. I never had a point on her because there was no sexual tension between us. She seemed to me a bit cold.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had a birthday the day before. The next day we had a rehearsal together and in the end she told me that if I want to I could come to her place, drink and celebrate. I replied that I will consider this option. Later that day I met with my two friends, we got drunk and I told that we (actually only I) were invited to visit M’s flat. I called her and she agreed. We drank in her apartment as well, had a nice chat. Later we visited some club and one of my friends left home. Soon the other one did the same. We got back to her apartment. I myself pretty drank so I couldn’t ride home. The metro was of duty. I asked M. if I could stay at her apartment for this night and added a joke from “Mr. and Mrs. Smith” movie where Brad Pitt joins the card play and says he will play with these guys (which he later shoots dead), “unless he is too hot for them”.)))

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One minute passed and M. jumped on me saying that “I am too hot for her”. We immediately started having sex. Stripped our clothes off and here we go. I got hard. She got the condom, quickly put it on my penis. Various positions – missionary, doggy, cowgirl. Her body was far better than I expected but as I said she wasn’t that passionate. She was active but didn’t moan, etc. I don’t usually last that long, but that night I was drunk so I even excused couple of times that I don’t come quick (don’t know why I did that). After I finally came we tried to sleep. But as usual for me (I don’t last very long but can do 5 times per night easy) I’ve suggested to perform once more. This time she put a condom on my dick using her mouth (which was very technically great) and gave me head a little bit. I’ve never had a blowjob in condom so I once again entered her. We had sex, she was a lot on me and I came into a condom while not pulling out my dick. We later fell asleep finally.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up in the morning, she had to go to work and I am home. I felt bizzare and kind of afraid of what I did. Thought that it was a mistake.

I went home and M. texted me and invited to visit her once again that night. I ignored her and still think that it was a mistake.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To cheer myself up, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Couple of years later told about it to my friends. They said it was a great adventure.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I didn’t have sex for a long time so it was a great chance to fuck somebody.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I acted like an idiot afterwards. I could have a sex-buddy, have regular fuck-sessions in her nice apartment (center of Saint-Petersburg).

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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