Blind Date Mix-up

by Jen

Gender: Female
Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Medical
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Not sure, but good guess is 120
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Blind Date Mix-up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was in his upper 40’s, about 6’6, about 250 lbs, black, shaved head.
It was a blind date and didn’t know him before.
We met at a casino bar.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My friend wanted to hook me up with a guy at her work.  She set us up and set the date up and for us to meet at a casino bar.  So my friend told me go to the casino bar and to make sure I wore an all white dress so that he would know it was me when I arrived.  So thinking I was going to a casino and thinking first impressions mean everything I decided to wear a super short and tight white mini dress with super super tall heels because she told me that he was a lot taller than me.  I got to bar about 15 minutes early to watch others come into bar.  So as I sit a guy approches me who was tall.  I said hi and said are you Derek.  He said yes and I said Ally told me you were tall but I wasn’t expecting this tall.  He replied saying Ally told me you were cute but you aren’t cute, you’re drop dead gorgeous.  I smiled and he said lets get out of this bar to a better one and get some drinks,  so we left that bar and had a few drinks at other one and also said that played some casino games.  So after a couple hours he asked if he wanted to go to his hotel room at the casino.  I said sure.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So as we enter his room he hugs me from behind  and I instantly feel his hard dick on my backside.  I turn and we kiss passionately and hard.  His hands are all over me.  I’m loving the erotic, spontaneous, just letting it happen mood I he instantly put me in.    After some great kissing I realize he’s got my dress to my waist and and feeling my bare ass.  He then touches me shoulders and pushes me down to my knees where he then pulls out an insanely huge dick.  This is the first black guy I’ve ben with and it is true what they say about them.  I think it had to be about 10″!!  So he then has me suck on it.  I Sucked on it and sucked on it as he moaned and then he grabs the back of my head and holds my mouth dep on his dick as it starts pumping cum like crazy.  He hold my head there the whole time as I’m barely able to swallow it all.  He then pulls me up after and pickse up and carriese to the bed and he then starts licking my pussy until I orgasmed so hard and multiple one at that.   After i orgasm he  gets up and puts his dick in my pussy.  I was so in the zone and he knew it and knew he could do whatever he wanted with me because he didn’t ask me if anything was ok first.  He just did it and I loved it.  He fucked my pussy and i orgasmed again and he came in my pussy as I was orgasming.  After that he said that he was still hard so he turned me over doggy style and fuckede some more.  This time he’s thumbing my asshole at the same time and I have another orgasm.  As soon as I finish orgasm he pulls out and fucks my ass.  He didn’t take it slow but just took me hard.  I was screaming in joy as he did it and he pulled my hair back hard.  It was such an intense rush.  He then came in my ass after a long time.  After that we both just collapsed.  I then awake about 2 hours later with him feeling me all over and we do it all again.   We did the same cycle three more times and finally left at noon time the next day!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes many and my date had plenty too.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None.  I was so in the zone I didn’t even think about it.  He did mention it as I was leaving that he was so into me he forgot.  I told him I forgot too.  He did ask after that that he hopes I was on the pill.  I said I wasn’t.  He said oh no and I said I would go get a day after pill.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Blind date. In the moment.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much?: Alcohol.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Ok so after the hookup I left and went home.  I called my friend up and said I had a great time on the date.  That’s when my friend said what are you talking about.  She said that her friend said I stood him up.  I then asked her to describe him.  She described a white guy and not a black guy.  So basically the guy I had the blind date with lied to me.  So I called him up and it was a wrong number.  So after I felt like I was treated like some whore who just got used.  I’m not sure what the future with the date holds because although it was great, he did trick me.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone about the hookup

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t like that I was tricked but I don’t regret what happened.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part was the rush of it.   It hasn’t changed my view on casual sex

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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