Bonfire Hook-Up



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit

Bonfire Hook-Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? week ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s early 20s, attractive with a nice body. It was dark so that’s the only thing I remember.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve been hang out with a couple of guys and their GFs between classes. They live outside the Miami metro area 30 minutes west and carpool. The boys drive big loud trucks with big tires and everyone’s polite. They invited me to a party this weekend. It’s a bonfire party with a friend that has access to private property. I didn’t have any plans so I agreed.

They told me my car won’t make through the property so they told me were to park and I could ride with them. The road was rough and muddy but the ride was fun. It was dusk when we arrived at the large clearing and the fire was already big. There were a lot of people hanging out.

I asked if anyone smoked pot. They pointed me to the group. It was early so I only took a two hits and was feeling good (not close to being buzzed or high). By now it was dark and the bonfire was the only light. I was sitting on a blanket when a guy came up and started talking. He was hot. He leaned in for a kiss and things got heated. He asked if I’d like to take a walk.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We grabbed the blanket and used his phone flashlight to find a private place. I spread the blanked and he turned off his phone. Now the only light was from the half moon and stars. I was on my knees and unzipped his jeans and pulled out his cock. It was dark but I could feel he was above average size and semi hard. I sucked him till he was fully hard. I took off my shorts and he removed his pants. He rolled his pants up and placed them under my ass and dove his head between my legs to give me oral. (I was impressed because most guys go straight to fucking).

He spent a long time down there. Everything he was doing was making me wet and cum. His final move was to swirl and massage my clit. My body was shivering and I had to beg him to fuck me NOW! I was ready to jump his cock! Thankfully, he had a condom or I’d jumped him raw.

I pushed him on the ground and straddled him. I rode him as hard as I could till I got off. I bent over and he began fucking me from behind and had another orgasm. I thought, ‘wow this guy is good.’ He got on top and finally got off. I was exhausted. We put our cloths on and made our way back.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I hung out till midnight then my friends drove me back to my car and I went home.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BF. We’re open & he enjoys hearing about my spontaneous hook-ups.
My BFF Beck. She thought it was a hot story but can’t believe I don’t remember guy’s name. LOL

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The weather was perfect to be fucked outside.
He gave me great oral!
He was able to last a long time.
He got me off twice.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. It was all good.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I enjoy having sex with people I’ve just met and am attracted to. I think friends can have casual sex and remain friends as long as protection is used.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was sitting alone and he joined me. He was nice and I thought he hot. I’m glad he asked me to go for a walk in the woods. It was a perfect night to have sex under the clear sky with a hot guy.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish people would be more open to casual sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice place to share stories. I like reading other experiences too.

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