What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Construction
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mei is Japanese, short maybe 5ft, long brown hair, thin and flat chested, mid 20s. She was wearing a crop top tee shirt & denim mini skirt with tall heels. She had big eyelashes and wearing sparkle makeup. I’m 6ft & work construction.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had finished a job in Arizona and was heading back home to Arkansas. I was tired, had a pocket of money so I stopped at a Casino in New Mexico to spend the night and try my luck. I was playing black jack and Mei came over and joined my table. She kept looking at me and I winked back. She came over and sat next to me. She twisted toward me and crossed her legs. I could see her pink panties. She had a broken accent but was very flirty. We moved over to a bar and had a few drinks. She insisted on adding my drink to her room tab. She put her hands on my hands and began rubbing my chest. I put a hand on her thigh and she kissed me. I suggested we go to my room. She agreed.
We were on our way and passed her parents. Mie introduced me to them. They looked very old and like typical American tourists. Her dad was wearing khaki pants and a Grand Canyon tee shirt. Her mom was wearing big glasses, a New Mexico tee shirt and baggy denim jeans. Mei told her parents she was staying with me tonight and we left. I wasn’t planning for her to spend the night but I was fine with it. I stopped by the Casino store to get a box of condoms then we went to my room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got inside and she insisted I sit down. She took off her clothes. She had the thickest bush I’d ever seen. She took off my shirt and rubbed my chest and kissed me all over. Then she worked to get my jeans and boxers off. I was already hard and when she first put eyes on my cock she had a big smile. She said, “You are BIG!” with a Japanese accent.
She got on top, lowered herself onto my cock. She began fucking me hard and fast. Her ass was probably moving 100mph. She was making a high pitch squeal. I thought she was close so I grabbed her flat ass and started fingering her asshole. That sent her over the top. She began hard slow thrusts and I could tell she was having an orgasm. I positioned her on the edge of the bed for doggy and I finished. We got dressed and went back to the casino for a snack and drink. Then came back to the room for more sex. I started out trying anal and she didn’t object. We had sex a few more times over the night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning, I woke up and was in the shower. After a few minutes, Mei got in and began washing me with a soapy wash cloth. This wasn’t like a sexy moment in the movies. She was washing me all over like a nurse would in a hospital. When she finished I got out to dry off and she rinsed off. We had sex then went down for breakfast. We ran into her parents and they joined us. They were a polite couple but I couldn’t understand anything they were saying. We finished and with broken English she told me it was time for them to go. We said our goodbyes and she left with her parents
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few co-workers and friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was great! Mei was a very nice girl too.
I discovered, when I checked out, all of my drinks and meals were put on her parents room bill.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It only lasted one night. I should have asked for her contact information to stay in touch but that could have made the situation awkward. Both of us were treating this as a one-night-stand so that’s the way it remains.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have no problem with casual sex. I’m always on the road working in different towns & look up with a few local women often.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’ve hooked-up with women at a bars and casinos before and I’ve always been cautious.
I’m typically attracted to blondes with a nice rack. Mei was not my type but she made the effort to talk to me first & she was attracted to me. After spending the night with her, I could tell she was a genuine nice girl with no motive. Even though we were from different parts of the world with slightly different views on culture. She was ‘very honored’ to wash me in the shower. That’s a moment I’ll never forget.
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