What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States, California, San Diego
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Marketing Director
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heteroflexible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Cheated on Fiance with Her Friend While She Was Passed Out!
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The girl I hooked up with was a cute blond, about 5’7, size 2-3 and nice plump D-cup breasts. She has a bright, pretty smile, long hair, nice legs and ass and a great pussy. I know her about 5-6 months before hooking up, she was friends with my fiancé and went on cruiser rides with us on Wednesdays. It started out with us all hanging out at the same bar. We would all 3 hang out during the day, have drinks. I def was checking her out before hooking up. She was hot but I had no intention of doing anything, I could feel a vibe off her too, checking me out from time to time.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook-up caught me totally off guard. We had gotten back to my condo, my fiancé was passed out on in the bedroom, and suddenly I noticed we were sitting there together. Pretty buzzed up, so details are fuzzy. I do recall she leaned over and started kissing me. I kissed her back, instantly hard. It was insane! My girl was in the other ROOM!!!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went down on her first, licked her pussy and played with her ass a little bit, then we pulled each other’s pants off, and went to town! I wasn’t thinking anything but fuck yes at the time! I remember I came once. Swapped rubbers and went back at it, came again and we were still super into it, making out. Then we make our way to the bedroom. I go to brush my teeth, and come out of the bathroom, she is on the bed next to my girl!!! So I lay down, we giggle and I start trying to sleep. Next think I know she’s stoking my cock, it’s hard.. . . Again, and we got for #3, RIGHT NEXT TO HER!!! I’m pounding her friend into oblivion and she never wakes up. Fuckin nuts. Went to sleep after that and it was our secret.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She began to call, I realized I couldn’t keep a 2 girl thing going, so I sent my buddy in to torpedo the deal and pursue her. Seemed to work, got her off my trail and my girl never know, just wondered why her friend kinda faded off.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend and her cousin (fiance). They were blown away and then jealous!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was just so naughty!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I can’t hook up with her again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, other than this happening to me at least 1-2 times a year.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was fun, pushed it to the limit. Still wonder what would have happened had she woken up.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nah, I’m a man whore.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome. We need more of this.
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