Cheated on My Boyfriend with His Cousin’s Husband



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Gastonia
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6

Cheated on My Boyfriend with His Cousin’s Husband

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Oral

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve known my boyfriend’s cousin longer than I’ve known my boyfriend. And she’s been married for 5 years.

I never had feelings for her husband.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I spent the night at her house while my boyfriend stayed at home.

We had a little wine and she talked me into sucking his dick.

It was more like a dare.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well seeing it was only a blowjob, I didn’t do much talking. But my boyfriend (her cousin) did call my phone. So I stopped what I was doing to answer and she snatched my phone. She answered and motioned for me to keep going. My jaw dropped. She told him I was asleep and continued to talk to him for about 10 to 15 minutes while I was going down on her husband. She told me later that night that I need to have a 3some with 2 guys. My bf would never do that, so she told me it could be her husband and his best friend.
So that’s happening soon as long as she can talk to my bf again if he calls.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t feel too bad because I actually kinda liked the situation.

Fun on the side

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened, I swallowed for the first time.

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Peer pressure, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, What he doesn’t know won’t hurt.

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only people that know is my boyfriend’s cousin and her husband.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The kinkiness

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I need more fun

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m kind of excited about The next time. It’ll be 2 guys instead of one.

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