by Mt Man
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Montana
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Zoologist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Cheating With Girlfriend’s Cousin
How long ago did this hookup happen? 16 days ago 8/4/2018
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is 5’7 with shoulder length brunette hair, blue eyes, 38C cup breast, and a nice round ass. I knew her for 10 years before the hookup. We met when I first met my girlfriend 10 years ago. I was attracted to her, but I never made a move or thought anything would happen.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began at an outdoor gazebo at a hotel. It was a night of drinking and flirting. We did not plan anything, but mutually instigated the events due to sexual tension and attraction.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were in the hot tub at the hotel after a night of drinking. We made out as I fingered her. I sat on the edge of the hot tub and she gave me head while playing with herself. We then switched spots and I ate her out. We went back into the hot tub and I pushed her bikini bottom to the side. She rode me in cowgirl and then reverse cowgirl. After, I fucked her doggy style until we both climaxed. I finished inside of her. She was very giving, caring, and loving during the exchange. We talked about how great it felt and how we both wanted it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Before leaving the hotel, we hugged and kissed while everyone else got into the truck. We talked about staying friends and the possibility of hooking up again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told nobody.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact she was younger, attractive, funny, and we’d been flirting a lot.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was with my girlfriend’s cousin.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think having casual sex helps with overall sexual health!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting.
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