Club Hook Up – Anna



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+

Club Hook Up – Anna

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a dancer. Very pretty black woman, small tits but big booty. Was a great dancer and could move her body both on and off the pole.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had seen her dancing on stage and wanted to spend money on her. Ended up sitting with her most of the night. I got some great lap dances. We had great conversation and had no idea what was going to happen that night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When the club shut down for the night, I decided to get a cab because I had some drinks and did not want to drive. I noticed that she was also in the parking lot. She looked worried, I asked if everything was ok. Found out that the woman she was supposed to ride home with had left before and left her without a ride. I offered to share my cab. We talked the whole ride home. When we got to my place I offered to pay for her ride home. She asked if she could use the bathroom and let the cab go. Once she came out of the bathroom we continued to talk. We ended up kissing and headed to the bedroom. We soon got naked and she asked if I had a condom. I told her I didn’t have any condoms. This was not the truth but wanted to bareback her. After some more kissing, she didn’t stop me when I entered her. The sex was amazing and I felt her cum on my cock a few times. I also filled her up multiple times in almost every position we could think of.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left the next day and we were still kissing. If I had not already had a girlfriend I think I would like to date her more. She actually got pregnant and I helped with the abortion. Tried to have sex with her again but only have gotten car head from her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was amazing

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She got pregnant and had an abortion. Which might be why she won’t have sex with me again

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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