by I Take It and Love It
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Closet bi
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? No
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2016
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Answered an ad on Craigslist for a bottom
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Talked via email, he was hosting, told him I’d service his cocktail and he could have my assignment for ass for as long as he wanted. I prepared my assignment before I left for his house and had a butt plug in while I drove over.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went straight to his bedroom when I arrived at his house. I got on my knees and sucked his soft cock and took his balls in my mouth. He didn’t get hard, so I got on all fours on the bed and he fingered my asshole until he was ready to fuck. He fucked me until he came using a condom. I tried to suck him hard again, but he couldn’t get hard again. So I put my ass back up in the air and he licked and played with my asshole for another 20 minutes. I then climbed on him and stroked our cocks together until I came on his chest.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Love my ass being used
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Wanted to be fucked more
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want more
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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