What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Youth worker
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bi
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 8 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The guy was a total stranger at a gay spa. I had never been to one before and was curious about dick. I was a total guy virgin. I was lying in the sauna and this guy came up to me and massaged my arse and I thought he was cute.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In the gay sauna. I totally planned to go there and get fucked. He instigated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He massaged my arse and I was kind of shocked but sooo turned on. He had a big hard on that looked so appealing. I’d never touched a man’s dick before and it looked so hard and I was kind of gagging for it. We kissed then went upstairs to the sex rooms. He sucked me off and I felt so naughty having another man blow me. Then I put his cock in my mouth and licked and sucked his hot dick. OMG, I was loving it! He was talking dirty and telling me what a good boy I was. After blowing each other he put me on my hands and knees and rimmed my arsehole. I nearly died of pleasure. Then he slid a finger in while lubing up his cock. I felt the head of his dick pushing into my tight arsehole. It hurt like hell as I was a virgin, but once I relaxed it started to go in easier. When the whole thing slid in, I nearly died of pleasure and was soon backing up on him like a good slutty boy. My ass was so spread. Once he had started getting deeper and deeper I shot the most earth-shattering orgasm ever…I was quivering. He then blew his load all over my asshole. Have been sooo bi and a big dick lover ever since.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?
I was so confused the next day so I watched gay porn and got super hard again. Will never see them again, but gave me a great first time with a dick.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One girlfriend, she was excited.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Anal sex for the first time and sucking dick.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yeah totally know I’m bisexual now.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Dicks are so good.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s amazing and thrilling.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? So nice to be able to express myself.
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