What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Buenos Aires
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Double 1 Night Stands
How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Young American girl that happened to be living in Argentina in the late 90’s. We met at a club through a group of friends, all expats, young professionals living life. She was a bit overweight, large breasts, cute faced blond girl. We went to the club and decided to get a table with 2 bottles of tequila. Started taking shots and enjoying time. At one point, already a bit drunk, we were left alone at the table. Everyone else had gone dancing. Not sure how, but we started to make out, she was very horny and started to move as if she was going to come. At that point, I told her that we should get out of the club, to what she immediately, without saying nothing, grabbed my hand and led me out of there. I was really drunk at that moment and without realizing it, a few minutes later we were in a taxi heading to her apartment and making out in the back seat.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Once in her apartment we went directly to the bed and started making out and frantically taking our clothes off. She had big breasts and I spent quite a bit of time playing with her hard round nipples. She moaned and pushed her body next to mine. While playing with her breasts I started fingering her. Her vagina was moist and my fingers slipped right inside. I went directly to her G-Spot and she just couldn’t handle it. She moaned and came loudly. She then pulled a condom from her drawer and put it in my penis. She gave me a wonderful blow job and when I was about to come, she stopped and jumped on top. She rode me like it was the last time she would have sex. I came and we laid down on our backs exhausted… by then it was around 4am
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I fell asleep and woke up half an hour later. Found myself running to the bathroom to vomit. I spent a few minutes, washed my mouth and opened the door to go back to bed. I was too drunk to go home so I decided to spend the night there. When I opened the door, right in front of me I see another cute little brunette, in her PJs (tight shorts and a small T-shirt). She was drunk too, and was not surprised to see me. In the contrary, she said hi and commented on how good I looked (I was naked!) Instantaneously, I hugged her and started kissing her. She returned the kiss and took me to her bed, right across the hall from her roommate’s room. I laid on by back, she blew me, kissed me all over my body and played with my balls. When I was hard, she sat on my penis and gently with a slow rhythm moved while I grabbed her tits. This encounter was much more gentle, slower, and romantic than the one with her roommate. She was petite, cute, delicate and very gentle.
After having sex twice, and having slept very little, I grabbed my clothes and left that apartment. I never saw neither of them again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? really hung over
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of friends that were there that night and wondered where had I gone and why…
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That I had 2 girls during the same night
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was feeling too drunk and could have enjoyed it much more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent work… keep up the good energy!
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