by Sara cares
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New Jersey
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
Drunk With Dre
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last summer
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He gets on my nerves since he’s cocky and immature. He’s my boyfriend’s cousin. He’s been tormenting my boyfriend most of his life, but I’ve heard endless stories about how big his dick is! I mean all the time! My boyfriend can’t stand him!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were camping with friends at a lake. We were all in our swimming stuff. I had on a black bathing suit and all of the guys had on their shorts. Two of their girlfriends were with us.
Shortly after arriving, he blurted out: “danm yo ass looking good.” I said thank you, but my boyfriend didn’t say anything, he just looked pissed. Later that afternoon, I gave him a ride back to our house, to switch shoes. He was drunk as shit. He went in, and I followed. As soon as we were inside, we started kissing. His body was so cut and I felt his big dick on me through his trunks. I couldn’t believe all the girls were right! That thing was a monster!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I jerked his trunks down, and sucked like I was hungry. He was thick and my pussy was gushing wet as I sucked his juicy dick. Having that much dick in my mouth had me so hot! What really blew my socks off was the way he was talking to me. He was not afraid to say anything!
I sucked faster, and faster every time he opened his mouth. My boyfriend would never have the guts to say such things since he cares too much and he respects me too much. Dre on the other hand DID NOT! He had absolutly no problem ordering me to suck his dick, and I had never been wetter in my whole life! It wasn’t anything I was used too! I loved sucking his dick! I loved being sneaky too! I never done anything like this in my life!
I love my boyfriend, but I’ve always wished he could be a little tougher. I became his because he was nice and he wasn’t just after what was between my legs. But on this night, I gave in! I just did! I took him out of my mouth, and flicked my tounge on the head really fast without stopping. He could barley take it, and just threw his head back. It felt good to please another dick for once. It also made me feel sexy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I thought about it everynight! I felt a little bad, but it got me too hot to regret it. It’s sickining, but there’s a side of me that loved it, because it was wrong. This would devastate my boyfriend!
He would never be the same. After all Dre’s done to him? I hated this guy! I always thought he was a asshole! Just the sight of him was too much. One night I drank too much and just like all the others I think about him as much as his fat dick in my mouth.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Meth
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My girlfriend Mary, and she couldn’t believe it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Huge dick. For sure. It was bigger than my man.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My boyfriend hates him. He bullied my boyfriend his whole life, stole his girlfriends, disrespected him, etc.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
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