Eating My Words



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NC
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Eating My Words

How long ago did this hookup happen? Couple months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met “Wazowski” through a mutual friend some months before. We didn’t hang out a lot but we’re really friendly with each other if we ran into each other. I’d always been attracted to him, he was 23 and on the football team, black and sort of tall, muscles. I could tell he would have been interested but I was in a exclusive friends with benefits relationship already and didn’t want to mess that up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our mutual friend and I was hanging out one night and I casually and jokingly mentioned to him that I would ride the skin off “Wazowski’s” dick. The friend then called him and basically told him everything because at this point Wazowski had already graduated but coincidence on coincidence he was gonna be in town tomorrow for a party and we should link up. So I was trapped.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I wasn’t too nervous because I just chose not to really think about it. I went to the same party that next night and we saw each other and talked and danced a bit. Once I got home it was 3 in the morning and he texted about 20 minutes later asking about coming over. I said yes of course. I showered stripped then waited. He came in through the unlocked doors then to my room where I had a low light on. It was sorta awkward at first with us just talking laying in bed but the conversation loosened us up and he finally kissed me. We made out a good while then he stripped and went down on me and started eating me out. His head wasn’t that great but it was enough. I asked if he had a condom and he said no so I thankfully pulled out the 2 magnums I borrowed from my friend earlier and we ended up using both condoms AND had sex twice without it. It was good, not the best I’ve had though. We slept then he left in the morning.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was fine between us we kept up contact with each other and plan on reuniting this summer since we live in the same city. I had no expectations and neither did he but we would like to continue having casual sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends who loved it

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was my first truly older guy

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The head

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Hasn’t really changed my perspective in all for casual sex

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s very interesting to know so many people engage in it. It makes it feel more acceptable and it’s fun reading about others experiences

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