What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Paris
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Designer
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Thousands
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Ended throwing up all that Swiss chocolate
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall and had a big cock, not shaven. Early 40s. Long blond hair and brown eyes. Nice smile but slightly unattractive. Never knew his name.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Went to a gay sauna in Zurich’s red district. Was certain that I’d get a good fuck out of it. Upon arrival, was extremely disappointed. All men were in their late 60s or 70s and mostly asleep or watching TV. Naked of course. It felt like a visit to a gay retirement home. Since I was there already, decided to enter the steam room,and that’s where I met the only other guy in the place that was not a senior. The hook up was instantaneous.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We proceeded into leaving the steam room and finding a cabin. It had a window and didn’t feel private at all. There was no lock either. When we started making out, other men entered the room and my Swiss prince “uncharming” kicked them out with brisk german command words. He laid himself on the mattress and I sucked his cock with care and dedication. He came in my mouth and I swallowed it all. We went back to the steam room,and back to the same cabin again. After some quick making out, I positioned myself by the wall and bent over a little. He fucked me senselessly and I told him to cum, because I was also about to. We came at the same time. His cum gobbled out of my ass. I squirted on the wall.
We took another break in the steam room and he was ready to roll again. We then decided to try another cabin and I was dedicated into giving him a wonderful oral experience, but then I got a hair stuck in my throat. So bad I started having puke reflexes. Threw up a bit in front of him, left the place running and threw up again in a bin. Then went to the restroom and threw up all that was still on my stomach in the toilet. It wouldn’t flush and I heard people sounding a bit aggravated outside. Totally humiliated, the best I could do was put up best smile and leave. I had to have lunch again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt like shit right after. But today that’s just a fun embarrassing moment. Never met the guy again. Never even knew his name.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never told this to anyone before.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was sleazy in ever possible way.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The embarrassing throwing up because of a pube in my throat situation.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I had a lot of fun telling this story here for the first time. It’s like a bad comedy.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex for me is like a hobby. I acted most of my fantasies (both sleazy and romantic) and I think that sexual freedom is both empowering and liberating.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love the stories. They are sexual but not erotic most of the time, just plain real. It is a great collection of human experiences.
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