With Ex of My Lesbian Roommate

by Sam

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Riga
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

with ex of my lesbian roommate

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.9 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a friend of my lesbian room partner. Let me call her D. She came to my apartment with my roommate to celebrate her end of final exams. She was short but good looking.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning involved. I was in a relationship but it was almost on the verge of finishing. all 3 of us drinking all night till morning. talking about relationship as she was also in a relationship and consoling me about mine. later in night she told me she was my roommate’s ex and she want to be with her again.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we went to sleep in morning around 5. all 3 of us sleeping on same bed. she was in middle and me and my roommate were on either side. my roommate passed out immediately. before sleeping, D took out her pants . she went to sleep just in her panties and see through top. drink and her top and panties made me kind of horny. she went to sleep. after some time when i cant control myself i decided to took a chance. i casually put my hand on her stomach to which she didnt respond. after some time i bring my hand near her boobs and finally on her boobs. she still didn’t respond. after getting more courage i start pressing her boobs and slowly slowly i move her top up and start feeling her boobs from top.

Finally i went down between her legs and started rubbing her pussy from top of panties before going inside. to this she start moaning and then i move her bra up and start sucking her boobs while finger fucking her pussy. i was trying to kiss her but she didn’t let (later my roommate told me she is not into kissing). after some time she had an orgasm.

After that she stop me from doing anything else. but i rocking hard by this time and i started talking with her sweet to make her agree for fuck. finally she gave in and let me fuck her. we did it in missionary position. she don’t want to try any other position because of my roommate sleeping next to us. when i was near i finished on her stomach. after that she let me suck her boobs for sometime before stopping me. she told me later she didn’t want to have sex because she love her bf.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? morning i went to university for my finals. when i came back from the look of my roommate i came to know that D told her everything. my roommate was kind of pissed off and was running after me to beat me. before leaving D told me she enjoy the sex but she don’t want to remember about it bcs of her bf. for me it was kind of revenge on my gf because i knew that behind my back she is cheating on me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel better about myself, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? to my friend and my current gf. my friend was happy but i think my gf got bothered about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? it was relieving for me. i got revenge on my gf. i told her that i knew she is cheating on me and im even with her now. and then i was okay with break up and we broke up

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. it was perfect

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? though that was not my first one night stand but drink and sense of relief i got after that night so much that after i was refraining myself from serious relationship. mostly going for one night stand. took my time till i found my current gf who was not like those bitches and sluts.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? it depends from person to person. about me im still very positive about it and who knows one day i will try it or maybe encourage my gf to try as far as she is okay with with both of us

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? its a nice project. all questions covering up different facets of their experiences so that u can express urself better

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